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Wise_Dragonfly asked:


My oldest grandchild is 12 and she has lived with me and her grandfather most of her life. This granddaughter is the apple of her grandfather’s eye! We love her very much and continue to remind her that her place with us is safe, that we will always love her!
Recently, my son, his wife and two kids, ages 5,and 9 months have moved in. My granddaughter is extremely jealous over everything and anything that concerns the 2 younger grandkids.
The 12 year old is extremely jealous of the 5 year old! She is in a constant competition watching his every move so that she can get mad over an issue.
Yesterday, she got mad at me because I was in the pool with the 5 yr old when she came home from school. If I buy anything for the 2 younger grandkids, she gets mad. The tension is so bad, her grandfather thinks we are avoiding her to prevent dealing with the jealousy.
I need to find a way to help the granddaughter overcome her unjustified jealousy. Please help!

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Haidar asked:


Hello friends some time we are suffering from a bad habit called jealousy.. Do you think that our upbringing is the cause of this bad habit (if its negative Jealousy)

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Richard Mackenzie asked:


Jealousy is one of the most human of all emotions, and each one of us has experienced it at one time or the other. Jealousy towards your spouse/partner, jealousy towards a sibling, jealousy towards a co-worker, these are but a few examples of this human emotion. While in some cases this jealousy is at a controllable stage, there are yet others when this emotion just takes over the lives of people, and it is then that the warning bells start ringing. Some amount of jealousy is natural to all people, but when it becomes an obsessive trait there is cause to worry, for driven by this Green Devil, we end up hurting the people we love and causing mental torture to both them and us. Once you have identified this emotion as one that has to be dealt with, hypnotherapy for jealousy is one of the most effective routes you could take to control it.
Jealousy, is a result of an over active imagination and an underlying insecurity. As someone rightly said, “an idle mind is a devil’s workshop”. This misguided imagination makes us do some terrible things. You can’t stop thinking about your partner, each and every innocent thing that he says and does, seem to take on epic proportions of infidelity to you. You find yourself imagining scenarios about your partner, and in the process torment yourself. You know that it’s not good for your relationship, but you simply can’t stop. Jealousy can be tragic and devastating to a relationship, it can create bitterness beyond imagination. In some cases it can lead to domination, controlling behavior and even physical violence; and I do not need to wax eloquent on how effective these things are in killing love and relationships. If you realize that it’s time to keep a check on your jealousy, you have already taken the first step towards bettering situations. Hypnotherapy for jealousy will take you a long way from there.
As I said, jealousy is often caused by our insecurities; hypnotherapy for jealousy takes stock of the past and present events in your life and identifies the core issue, which might be the catalyst to such behavior. Once the trigger is identified, hypnotherapy for jealousy helps you get over the negative emotions, through the power of positive thinking and auto-suggestions. Insecurity is effectively dealt with by changing your self-image and perception. Your self esteem is boosted by auto suggestions, and this reflects in your outward behavior. Your fertile imagination is weeded out thoroughly for unwanted scenes and undesirable stimuli, to give it a more healthy and positive outlook.
Hypnotherapy for jealousy works faster than you can imagine. Your partner will be astounded to see the new you, and it is needless to say that it will bring about a dramatic positive change in your relationship. Gone are the ugly scenes and the nagging suspicion, both you and your partner will benefit from these changes. If you stop imagining things, and learn to trust your partner, you will stop torturing yourself mentally. On the other hand, with this renewed trust your partner will feel less threatened and controlled, and will subconsciously react in a positive way towards you. Remember that though you feel your overwhelming love for your partner justifies your desire to control his/her actions, you know deep down it is not the done thing. Add to that the fact that chewing your nails while imagining worst possible scenes involving your mate, and an imaginary “Other” will bring you no good. So its time you got yourself a manicure for your hands, and hypnotherapy for your soul.

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isis asked:


The way I think of jealousy is desiring something that does not belong to you. I think possessiveness or defensiveness might be mistaken for jealousy. A feeling of admiration or appreciation are also not the same as jealousy. To me it is a false emotion

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tril asked:


who is more prone to jealousy in relationships? How can a person overcome it?

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Lovinlife asked:


I’ve been with my boyfriend for 1.5 years. I’m very possessive of him. I get SO jealous of other girls, even though he NEVER talks to them. I think it’s getting worse. I overanalyze his past relationships. Even if he hangs out with his guy friends I get jealous. I know this is very unhealthy. Many of my friendships faded away. Many are busy with their own lives now and he’s like the only close person I have in my life. Plus I would rather hang out with him than them. It’s like I want all of his attention. I know it’s wrong, in general I’m a really nice person, but to him I can be so selfish. He always hangs out with me instead of his guy friends, and he’s very sweet. Once we started dating, all of my friendships started fading away. I want to change, but I don’t even know where to begin. I want to be an “awesome” girlfriend. We’re both juniors in college, and all I truly want for the both of us is to be happy. Because of jealousy, our relationship isn’t as strong as it used to be.

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maddog2127 asked:

My boyfriend gives a new girl at work more attention, this girl see him too much. withso my question is how do work on overcoming this girl as my best friend told me its not just her though feel like she is the problem. sorry about my english, please help

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Abhishek asked:


I have some inherent very bad qualities like jealousy, insecurity and lack of self-confidence which is preventing me to be a better person or enter into a relationship. I have tried a lot of things but the results have been next to nil. Can you please suggest some way out of this dillemma? Thanks in advance.

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tril asked:


Is there a biological reason?
Has it always been there from birth?
From family /environment?
From experiences/ hurt/ betray?

HOW CAN SOMEONE TAKE STEPS TO OVERCOME THIS?
thanks for your insight

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missconfused asked:


Tell me what are signs when a guy gets jealous?Tell me why guys get jealous??????????HELP!!!!!

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