isis asked:


The way I think of jealousy is desiring something that does not belong to you. I think possessiveness or defensiveness might be mistaken for jealousy. A feeling of admiration or appreciation are also not the same as jealousy. To me it is a false emotion

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Lovinlife asked:


I’ve been with my boyfriend for 1.5 years. I’m very possessive of him. I get SO jealous of other girls, even though he NEVER talks to them. I think it’s getting worse. I overanalyze his past relationships. Even if he hangs out with his guy friends I get jealous. I know this is very unhealthy. Many of my friendships faded away. Many are busy with their own lives now and he’s like the only close person I have in my life. Plus I would rather hang out with him than them. It’s like I want all of his attention. I know it’s wrong, in general I’m a really nice person, but to him I can be so selfish. He always hangs out with me instead of his guy friends, and he’s very sweet. Once we started dating, all of my friendships started fading away. I want to change, but I don’t even know where to begin. I want to be an “awesome” girlfriend. We’re both juniors in college, and all I truly want for the both of us is to be happy. Because of jealousy, our relationship isn’t as strong as it used to be.

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Soraya asked:


Here’s the story,

I have a group of friends and we all have an edge. One of them is the smartest, one is the funniest, one is the sportiest, one is the most popular, and I used to be supposedly the “hottest”…

In the last few months I have gained some weight, and my “smartest” friend has become the “hottest”. So now she’s two things, she’s all grown up into a beautiful woman and guys are really noticing!

I feel as if I have lost my edge. I know it is a very “superficial” edge, but atleast it was something!!! Now I’m feeling mad towards my new hot friend for no good reason at all, and I am starting to act like the type of person I hate, the jealous type.

I’m too embarrassed to ask my friends about this problem, I don’t want them to know. They think I am really confident.

How I stop this burning jealousy?? I know the its what is on the inside that counts, but that doesn’t bring me any comfort…

Please help, and thanks for reading this far!!
Thanks for your help, guys, you all have great answers. I think I will take them into great consideration. An untainted, unbiased perception is always best for situations like these.

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