Jealousmate » Relationships

What are signs of jealousy and possessive?

Mon, 30 Nov 2009 07:20:31 +0000

if a guy is a player an he's being possessive and jealous with multiple girls, do you think he would do the same thing with his 'MAIN' girlfriend???

What are some examples of Jealousy in King Lear?

Mon, 30 Nov 2009 07:20:31 +0000

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He’s not taking things any further, so what’s with all the flirting and jealousy. …

Sat, 28 Nov 2009 20:16:09 +0000

This guy told me ages ago that he wasn't sure that relationships was right for him, because he's young and has too much energy. He said this while I was at his house, because he'd been inviting me over lots back then. We both enjoyed each others company & eventually he did ask me out, but I was very doubtful about his sincerity because of what he said before. Well my instincts were right, because he sort of backed away and didn't ask me to meet like usual, but would say let's meet up or text me every now and then. We did go on 1 date to the park & held hands.

Anyway, if I was out & he was there, he'd flirt with me like before & be over the top nice. complimenting me all the time, & every time a song came on that we had listened to together, he'd say 'that reminds me of when we used to hang out." I was thinking, well why don't you ask me to come over again. Every guy that spoke to me, he'd get extremely jealous. One of these times when we were all out, he kissed me passionately out of the blue, while I was hugging him to say hi. He hugged me & called me his rose & told me to call him. Why mel? He told his close friends he'd kissed me.

We used to talk on msn, but we don't use it anymore. I emailed him recently & he wanted to meet. I bumped into him on the street & he said we should meet up. I hadn't seen him in 10 mnths before this. I went to his house and it was like before; physical flirting, sexual tension, watching tv, & he likes to go bike riding, so he asked me if I wanted to come. He walked me home & it started to rain. He reminded me of the time we walked home once in the rain. He remembers small things.

My problem is that I text him a week later about a joke and he laughed and asked me what I was doing. Then I text him the next day, about a friend who wanted him to come to her party, and he said "Yeah possibly……what u up to anyways? xx" I told him I was going to uni. SInce then, I haven't text again.

The thing is, he never has a girlfriend, (I know this, because I know him and a lot of his friends, he also lives close). When he told me he didn't want a girlfriend, I thought he'd sleep around, but he doesn't even do that. He's slept with 1 girl and he's 24. He's a little bit immature.

He has ADHD and smokes weed sometimes . No other girls go to his house & he never texts his girl friends. He once told my friend on msn he cares about me &her & thinks i'm an amazing woman. He also said I had a good heart & deserve a great guy one night after getting jealous of a guy hitting on me when drunk.

I need a short story with a theme of jealousy?

Sat, 28 Nov 2009 20:16:09 +0000

classic, anthologies, etc.
Must be short story.

the sims 2 : children (sisters) jealousy?

Fri, 27 Nov 2009 08:58:33 +0000

i have a family. in this family i have 2 child girls, but the problem is, how can i make one child (the one i don't like the most) jealous from her sister ( the one i like the most!) please help!

thank you <3

Does he have jealousy issues? Could he possibly still have feelings for me?

Sat, 21 Nov 2009 12:43:47 +0000

was dating this guy a while back and he stopped talking to me because I "had too many guy friends". We recently started talking again and became friends again and he came to my house and I had a new chair in my room. He said "nice chair, who helped you move it in?". I had something new installed in my car, he saw it and said "this is new, who helped you install it?". He came over late one night and said "why are you home alone? where are all of your men at?" I dont know if he even has feelings for me anymore so he might just be trying to be funny. IDK.

this jealousy is getting really bad :(, how can i move on?

Sun, 15 Nov 2009 16:10:11 +0000

heya, so me and my boyfriend were together for some time, i love him so so much! we broke up about 5 or 6 weeks ago, he never loved me, and as much as it hurts i know it never would of worked because we dont feel the same. im really struggling throgh this herartbreak, its my first, and i never knew how much it hurts!

the thing that is making it harder to get through is that he has moved on, right from the moment we broke up he hasnt been bothered at all, i asked him if he is finding it hard and he said 'its weird not seeing eachother much i guess' so i realised, and accepted that i never really meant anything to him.

the problem is, because he has moved on, im so jelous of him, everytime i see him with another girl i get really mad (i would never utter a bad word to or about him) i think to myself wot if they get together? and i know its wrong because he is allowed another girlfriend, i cant see myself ever being with anyone els ever in my life but i know that he will meet someone, i do want him to be happy,

when i see him having fun, i get jelous, when i hear him talking about a night out or something that hes been to, or going to i get really jelous and i know its rediculus at my age!
i do have fun and go out with my friends but i just cant get him off my mind and it hurts that he is over me already, does this make me a horrible person? im glad that hes not suffering as i couldnt bare to see him in pain but… i just dont know!

so over-all i think the problems is that im jelous of where he is now, i wish i could get over him, i wish i didnt love him, why cant i just go on like nothing is wrong?
please give me some advise xXx

I dated this guy, and im dealing with jealousy concerning him now.?

Sat, 14 Nov 2009 05:08:58 +0000

For a few months I was casually dating this guy, we were never in a committed relationship, and in the last 2 months he was very possessive and very controlling. In the past few weeks I got fed up with it all and I told him and I didnt want to see him anymore. He's been exercising his last bit of control by threatening to tell people things that only knew about me. Long story short I worked around that, and it's all worked out now. [Nothing horrible happened there.] But he was really very weird that way toward the end. I know im over him, because the way he acted was so unacceptable and so crazy, that I just dont even want that type of person in my life. But now i noticed he's talking to someone knew, and I am feeling kind of jealous regarding it. Please help, why am i feeling this way? What should I do about it? Please help.

Haven’t met but showing signs of Jealousy!!??!!?

Thu, 12 Nov 2009 17:59:35 +0000

We emailed and messaged off and on for 2 years and a few months back on facebook I added him. We really hit it off and became interested in one another. We've scheduled to meet in about 4 months but I have some concerns. He's seen my ex on facebook and knows of how I was sexual w/ that guy but he CAN NOT GET OVER IT. It's so tiring because he gets jealous over the past and the stupidest part is he's gone as far as having prostitutes and I'm still a virgin. I'm starting to get worried that maybe wanting to be more than friends w/ this guy is just not worth the trouble. But I do care about him. I'm not sure what to do.

How Am I suppose to cure Jealousy?

Mon, 09 Nov 2009 19:54:10 +0000

I know there are many guys out there that have asked this question before. I really need help. I really love this girl which is the girl of my dreams. I wanna get married with her some day. We do enjoy being together all the time. Now she is away from me.

I am in Singapore. She is in Melbourne studying. I'm 24 and she is 21.
It may sound like we are a young couple, but we do think deep into our future and not like some young budding ignorant couple. We know what we need to have to proceed onto our lives.

We were very much in love before she left for Melbourne for her studies.
We still are. We tried to keep in contact through many means. I try not to stifle her because alot is riding on this study trip for her.

One of those means was through face book, we would share things going on in our lives. However, I work during the day and definitely could not be on Face book or be free to chat with her. So she often write things happening in her life and usually her school mates would
respond to it. And guess what, they are usually guys and its always these few guys. I brought it up with her that I was jealous because its always those few guys and sometimes i feel that she is writing things for them to respond to.

We had quarrels. I decided to pull the plug. I disconnect her as a friend on face book so I will not be compelled to see what she has to write. So far it has been better. Ignorance is bliss some would say.

but one day i realise i could still see her photos she would put up on facebook. and now the same guys would get friendly with her. it really pisses me off that she knows i am jealous if she were to talk to guys and she still do it. yet on this hand I know i should not and cannot control who she wants to talk to. I wanna change my mindset. I find myself sleepless some nights.

I know she loves me alot, but I just cant stand her enjoying opposite sex attention. Now i am not there to see what she writes on facebook, I can really see how she enjoys responding to those same ol guys. One guy even dissed me openly commenting and she didnt say anything.

I know its my problem, its my madness and jealousy going out of control. However, i hope she would have done something to make it easier for me to be less jealous. I want everything of her. I cant stand her giving any attention to any other guys. She can have all the girl friends she want I dont care, but guy friends, nothing social. I cant stand her making small chat with guys she claim meant nothing to her.

I am clearly frustrated at myself and at her. Sometimes I wanna just break up with her to free her and myself. but both of us are so madly in love with each other when we are physically together…….

but when we are not, I feel all the insecurities. help me. free me.