Comments on: Has anyone overcome major jealousy/trust issues in their relationship? How so?

By: kip

kip — Sat, 06 Mar 2010 17:56:48 +0000

I think for many people, their past issues come back to haunt them in current relationships. They have to see that and change their behaviour. On the other hand, I do not think a person should deliberately try to make someone react in a jealous way, either. They should not do something to offend the person they are in a relationship with. That is called respect. A woman should always know she is number one in a relationship – otherwise what is the point. Anything else only causes heartache.

By: Andy !!

Andy !! — Sat, 06 Mar 2010 17:23:45 +0000

you both need to open up to each other. and i know its hard.
you both need to sit down and talk to eachother honestly and try your hardest to not get mad or interrupt each other. if you cant express the way you feel toeach other than your relationship wont work. because a relationship is based on trust and honesty. try sitting with him and holding an object and saying whoever holds the object has the right to talk and the other has to stay silent. and just talk to each other. if you guys still cant trust each other than maybe its not meant to be.
sometimes its not worth the headache but i dont know how bad it is on your end. i didnt really give much advise but i hope the best for you.
the key really is open Communication.

By: Christina

Christina — Sat, 06 Mar 2010 17:21:34 +0000

No. If a person gives off signals of jealousy, in addition to having trust issues, there is nothing you can say or do to change this person’s mindset. You need to be with someone that is going to trust you and respect your wishes to speak, converse, etc with other men. If he trusts you, speaking to other ppl should not become problematic.