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6 Responses to “How can I control my jealousy issues?”
omg I am glad Im not the only one!
I just told him what my problem was and that I wasnt comfortable with him flirting with other girls!
I mean I still get REALLy jealous but I have great friends who I cry to instead of him, because it wasnt helping our relationship with the whole jealousy thing!
you remind me of my friend karen
*sigh* too bad she still isn’t over her ex boyfriend
i like her
anyway i’d say the 2 biggest things to do would be to:
1. stop drawing attention to other girls lol
that’s the root of what you’re jealous about
2. spend time with friends and with him more often to help boost your self esstime or find something you’re good at
there are SO many cute girls in this world, and more of em just keep getting born ….AH. there they all are. BUT the world IS WAY BIGGER than a beauty contest, truly, there are so many ways to value your self, you prob are beautiful, and you prob have potential to become more beautiful too, just by living and treating yourself well and discovering who you are. maybe go on a trip or go to some natural history museums or read some books or visit some old folks homes, anything that can help you get some perspective that the halls of highschool are not everything, not by a long shot. and yeah, stop talking about how cute other girls are. find some new intrerestes. go to therapy if you want, can’t hurt. but most of all just expand your interests, there are bigger fish to fry in this world than worrying about not being pretty enough, go forth and discover. xx
well you should be happy with the way you look i mean you have some good friends right? AND you have a dude that cares about you no matter what. The other girls? forget about them they may be good looking so what, they probably think you are better looking then themselves. So what I am saying is that you should be happy with you. You probably can do so many things that they can’t do AT ALL. Don’t worry about it you are probably very special.
Dating Advice
dont talk about the girls! he’s with u not them!
Stop putting yourself down, it leads to bad things. At least you have a boyfriend.
16 and single 4 life
omg I am glad Im not the only one!
I just told him what my problem was and that I wasnt comfortable with him flirting with other girls!
I mean I still get REALLy jealous but I have great friends who I cry to instead of him, because it wasnt helping our relationship with the whole jealousy thing!
you remind me of my friend karen
*sigh* too bad she still isn’t over her ex boyfriend
i like her
anyway i’d say the 2 biggest things to do would be to:
1. stop drawing attention to other girls lol
that’s the root of what you’re jealous about
2. spend time with friends and with him more often to help boost your self esstime or find something you’re good at
there are SO many cute girls in this world, and more of em just keep getting born
….AH. there they all are. BUT the world IS WAY BIGGER than a beauty contest, truly, there are so many ways to value your self, you prob are beautiful, and you prob have potential to become more beautiful too, just by living and treating yourself well and discovering who you are. maybe go on a trip or go to some natural history museums or read some books or visit some old folks homes, anything that can help you get some perspective that the halls of highschool are not everything, not by a long shot. and yeah, stop talking about how cute other girls are. find some new intrerestes. go to therapy if you want, can’t hurt. but most of all just expand your interests, there are bigger fish to fry in this world than worrying about not being pretty enough, go forth and discover. xx
well you should be happy with the way you look i mean you have some good friends right? AND you have a dude that cares about you no matter what. The other girls? forget about them they may be good looking so what, they probably think you are better looking then themselves. So what I am saying is that you should be happy with you. You probably can do so many things that they can’t do AT ALL. Don’t worry about it you are probably very special.