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11 Responses to “How can I stop my jealousy issues?”
You gotta be confident. You gotta think your the shyt, and your the best for her. Realize that she does say that she loves u so much and ur her true love and she would never hurt you. Realize that and only that. If you spend time worrying about the bad things that havent happened your never gonna be fully happy in that relationship. It does you no good to worry about it.
I’m sorry to tell you this, but to me it sounds like you don’t have enough trust and faith in her. Understandably you may have been hurt before, almost all of us have, but with each one, you have to trust in them fully or it’s not going to work. I’m sure you don’t feel comfortable thinking that she is going to leave you, but look at the situation logically.
Has she done anything to make you believe she would leave you? If she hasn’t, maybe you should just try believing what she says. Write out a list of things you like about yourself and what you think others like, and see what she finds attractive. Honestly, you can’t live life in a relationship constantly worried that the other person is going to leave you…that’s not going to work out.
No human being has property in another. True love never flourishes without true independence. A relationship requires flexibility, trust and complete freedom. Jealousy assumes posession, stifles freedom, negates trust, and consequently destroys real love. Understand this, and you have a much better chance of your relationship thriving…and lasting.
you have to believe in her. if you love her and she loves you (truly) you have to trust her. in a healthy relationship trust is #1. if you can’t trust her who can you trust?
You must be young. I was like that years ago. When you fully mature,jealousy won’t be an issue in your life. Maybe she gave you signs that you can’t trust her! Remember,”no trust no love”.
Jealousy is based on low self esteem. The only way you can stop is by realizing you are a worthy person and she loves you and won’t leave you. Sit down and make a mental list of all your good qualities, and realize that you deserve love.
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You gotta be confident. You gotta think your the shyt, and your the best for her. Realize that she does say that she loves u so much and ur her true love and she would never hurt you. Realize that and only that. If you spend time worrying about the bad things that havent happened your never gonna be fully happy in that relationship. It does you no good to worry about it.
I’m sorry to tell you this, but to me it sounds like you don’t have enough trust and faith in her. Understandably you may have been hurt before, almost all of us have, but with each one, you have to trust in them fully or it’s not going to work. I’m sure you don’t feel comfortable thinking that she is going to leave you, but look at the situation logically.
Has she done anything to make you believe she would leave you? If she hasn’t, maybe you should just try believing what she says. Write out a list of things you like about yourself and what you think others like, and see what she finds attractive. Honestly, you can’t live life in a relationship constantly worried that the other person is going to leave you…that’s not going to work out.
be true to yourself
tell her to quit being to flirtacious
then you are just plain insecure about yourself. If you really love her, you should be able to trust and believe her.
No human being has property in another. True love never flourishes without true independence. A relationship requires flexibility, trust and complete freedom. Jealousy assumes posession, stifles freedom, negates trust, and consequently destroys real love. Understand this, and you have a much better chance of your relationship thriving…and lasting.
you have to believe in her. if you love her and she loves you (truly) you have to trust her. in a healthy relationship trust is #1. if you can’t trust her who can you trust?
You must be young. I was like that years ago. When you fully mature,jealousy won’t be an issue in your life. Maybe she gave you signs that you can’t trust her! Remember,”no trust no love”.
Jealousy is based on low self esteem. The only way you can stop is by realizing you are a worthy person and she loves you and won’t leave you. Sit down and make a mental list of all your good qualities, and realize that you deserve love.
[...] your never gonna be fully happy in that relationship. It does you no good to worry about it.With my girlfriend? She tells me she loves me and swears im the one and she never would ever cheat o…ut on me. I just cant help but think that. How do I stop from thinking this way? You gotta be [...]
[...] what you can do to make yourself a better person and let others take you as a role model. good luck.Hello. I'll go straight into the story. I recently got a brand new computer, I've been saving up for…s. But he told his Dad to get everything in the computer that was a step up from mine. We both [...]