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15 Responses to “How do you get over jealousy issues when it comes to a current b/f bringing up an ex g/f?”
Omg, I cannot stand when my bf brings up anything about his exes. I easily get jealous because I don’t like it when i feel threatened or challenged. I’m not possessive at all, it’s just that I don’t like any girl to come and ruin my relationship. I think my bf already knows that I can’t stand him talking about other girls and he kind of likes that because it shows that I really care about him. Anyway, whenever my bf does bring up about his ex randomly, I just stay quiet and not listen. But yeah, I think you should try to just let this slide if your bf is just mentioning the little unimportant things of his exes. If he constantly brings up about his ex saying things about him or keeps on looking at her, you need to ask him if he’s still got feelings for her or not.
Judging by your little tiny picture. You have nothing to worry about. Just tell him to shut up when he starts talking about his ex.
If you just want to get over it. Then you have to learn to trust him and have confidence in yourself. You have to have fun in a relationship, and worrying about his ex will only result in problems. Everyone has a past, you have to accept it. It takes time.
Sounds to me like,he still has feelings for her.. If he continues to bring her up,find you another boyfriend,that’ll have his focus on you,and only you. I’m interested.
Everyone has an ex, yourself included. While you get insecure feelings when he talks about her, never-the-less, she was a major part of his life at that time. He`s not necessarily trying to anger/upset you. I`ll bet if you think about it you have brought up something that`s happened while you were with your ex. Tit for tat. Just try to understand from that point of view.
It’s normal to feel like that. I understand and you can’t help it especially if he brings her up in conversations all the time.
That’s frustrating! Hopefully you’ve talked to him about your feelings of him bringing her up like he does. If he truly cares about you then he will want you to feel secure with what only the two of you have together and nobody else.
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Dating Advice
Realize that he’s with you, not her and that speaks for itself about who he really likes.
Find a hotter boyfriend and make him jealous!
Omg, I cannot stand when my bf brings up anything about his exes. I easily get jealous because I don’t like it when i feel threatened or challenged. I’m not possessive at all, it’s just that I don’t like any girl to come and ruin my relationship. I think my bf already knows that I can’t stand him talking about other girls and he kind of likes that because it shows that I really care about him. Anyway, whenever my bf does bring up about his ex randomly, I just stay quiet and not listen. But yeah, I think you should try to just let this slide if your bf is just mentioning the little unimportant things of his exes. If he constantly brings up about his ex saying things about him or keeps on looking at her, you need to ask him if he’s still got feelings for her or not.
Judging by your little tiny picture. You have nothing to worry about. Just tell him to shut up when he starts talking about his ex.
If you just want to get over it. Then you have to learn to trust him and have confidence in yourself. You have to have fun in a relationship, and worrying about his ex will only result in problems. Everyone has a past, you have to accept it. It takes time.
Get another boyfriend.
I have the same problem with my girl….I just try to think of how much she loves me and how much I love her and it all goes away
Ask him not to talk about her, and realize that he loves you now. If he wanted her, he would be with her and not you, right.
Sounds to me like,he still has feelings for her.. If he continues to bring her up,find you another boyfriend,that’ll have his focus on you,and only you. I’m interested.
You can get over it by raising hell any time he brings it up. He’ll get the message.
Everyone has an ex, yourself included. While you get insecure feelings when he talks about her, never-the-less, she was a major part of his life at that time. He`s not necessarily trying to anger/upset you. I`ll bet if you think about it you have brought up something that`s happened while you were with your ex. Tit for tat. Just try to understand from that point of view.
It’s normal to feel like that. I understand and you can’t help it especially if he brings her up in conversations all the time.
That’s frustrating! Hopefully you’ve talked to him about your feelings of him bringing her up like he does. If he truly cares about you then he will want you to feel secure with what only the two of you have together and nobody else.
I could go on and on but it’s his ex that should be jealous hands down, you have nothing to worry about
Thats one of life big questions
when one goes into a relationship
one need 2 forget ppls past
caus we all hav skeletons
but if u dont hav trust
ur relationship will never last
ps if its meant 2 be its will be
but it takes 2
not 1
You just remember Israel is one lucky sumbitch.
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