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17 Responses to “How do you treat jealousy issues?”
i think that you have a good talk with her.
Because it not fair that she gets to talk to who ever she likes and that you don’t…
so i suggest that you talk to her about it=]
I would calmly talk to her about the fact that she’s doing exactly what she gets annoyed by. The fact that girls get away with a little more then guys is just a fact of life, I learned that quickly with dating in high school. However, she is being hypocritical, and you should bring it up.
I get in bad moods when my boyfriend does that. It’s only because I know how girls are. I’m not jealous, but I know that a girl will do ANYTHING to get the guy she’s attracted to, even if he does have a boyfriend. Just tell her that you’re committed and love only her and she has no reason to worry.
if she can sit there and talk to her guy friends then you should be able to do the same…explain that she has to be fair and if not then leave her dumb a*s!!!!
Everyone has jealousy issues… wheather they admit it or not. If she didn’t you would wonder if she is that into you. Tell her chill out your a flirt deal with it!!
i have the same problem only opposite. my bf gets SO mad when i talk to my guy friends but i dont get mad if he talks to girls. its so unfair and i hate it but he wont change. their just friends. they mean nothing like that.
tell her that you love her and that you only have eyes for her and that your not going to trade her for any of your friends so she has nothing to worry about
she is worried that u might like her friends b/c they might be prettier than her. its common knowledge that guys look more at the physical side. she just wants to knoe u will not leave her for them.
People think it able to stop…you can’t you can manage it. It helps when you are around your female friends and shes there give her some attention also, and if shes not there when you talk to her just remind her shes the only one you want, honesty its hard to stop, I’m exactly the same way she is…it sucks and I try to stop and my boyfriend doesn’t understand, I can’t. It also could be that she has low self-esteem…and shes afraid that she is not good enough for you and if you talk to other girls she might lose you because you might want them. But just show her that you want her and only her it helps.
usually those in relationships who get jealous over one doing the same thing as the other, are insecure due to their own miss deads. Keep your eye’s and ears open. good luck.
dude ima give you a straight answer and its true a little confusing but youll get it soon lol
Well jeolousy is just a part of you that your concsious or whatev is telling you that the person might be doing something wrong that you are capable of doing yourself like for example
if im talking to a girl and my girlfriend gets mad it really means she thinks your going to hook up with her or whatever cause in her point of view when she talks to her guy friends she feels a certain attraction to them and she thinks that the girl is attracted to you or the guy to the girl she might be cheating on you bro idk think about it
jealousy is a relationship eater, If you can convince her that you are in love her and her alone it might stop, don’t totally blow off your girl friends but cut back on it at least for awhile see what happens, she may change, and she might not never change,and that whats hard to deal with,let her know how you feel because honesty is the best policy,in the long run, anyway
honestly, it works both ways with me and my girlfriend. We both are jealous people and thats just the way we are…. I mean if shes talking to guys, and getting mad at you, than shes obviously being a hypocrit and you should just be straight with her in a non-confrontational way. Just say the next time that she gets upset that it bothers you that she has these feelings yet she openly talks to men. I mean, thats like me telling my girlfriend i dont like it when she goes to bars and than heading out to the nearest club. kinda silly dont you think?
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i think that you have a good talk with her.
Because it not fair that she gets to talk to who ever she likes and that you don’t…
so i suggest that you talk to her about it=]
say your tired of dealing with it and she needs to stop or the relationship wont work. i just told my new gf that and its worked so far.
I would calmly talk to her about the fact that she’s doing exactly what she gets annoyed by. The fact that girls get away with a little more then guys is just a fact of life, I learned that quickly with dating in high school. However, she is being hypocritical, and you should bring it up.
I get in bad moods when my boyfriend does that. It’s only because I know how girls are. I’m not jealous, but I know that a girl will do ANYTHING to get the guy she’s attracted to, even if he does have a boyfriend. Just tell her that you’re committed and love only her and she has no reason to worry.
Trust issues will ruin a relationship. Talk to her and let her know she should trust you. She will eventually push you away.
if she can sit there and talk to her guy friends then you should be able to do the same…explain that she has to be fair and if not then leave her dumb a*s!!!!
tell her that your just talking and that you love her and your not going to cheat on her…but sweetin it up!!
Everyone has jealousy issues… wheather they admit it or not. If she didn’t you would wonder if she is that into you. Tell her chill out your a flirt deal with it!!
i have the same problem only opposite. my bf gets SO mad when i talk to my guy friends but i dont get mad if he talks to girls. its so unfair and i hate it but he wont change. their just friends. they mean nothing like that.
tell her that you love her and that you only have eyes for her and that your not going to trade her for any of your friends so she has nothing to worry about
she is worried that u might like her friends b/c they might be prettier than her. its common knowledge that guys look more at the physical side. she just wants to knoe u will not leave her for them.
tell her to get over it…
you can have friends that are girls….
People think it able to stop…you can’t you can manage it. It helps when you are around your female friends and shes there give her some attention also, and if shes not there when you talk to her just remind her shes the only one you want, honesty its hard to stop, I’m exactly the same way she is…it sucks and I try to stop and my boyfriend doesn’t understand, I can’t. It also could be that she has low self-esteem…and shes afraid that she is not good enough for you and if you talk to other girls she might lose you because you might want them. But just show her that you want her and only her it helps.
usually those in relationships who get jealous over one doing the same thing as the other, are insecure due to their own miss deads. Keep your eye’s and ears open. good luck.
dude ima give you a straight answer and its true a little confusing but youll get it soon lol
Well jeolousy is just a part of you that your concsious or whatev is telling you that the person might be doing something wrong that you are capable of doing yourself like for example
if im talking to a girl and my girlfriend gets mad it really means she thinks your going to hook up with her or whatever cause in her point of view when she talks to her guy friends she feels a certain attraction to them and she thinks that the girl is attracted to you or the guy to the girl she might be cheating on you bro idk think about it
jealousy is a relationship eater, If you can convince her that you are in love her and her alone it might stop, don’t totally blow off your girl friends but cut back on it at least for awhile see what happens, she may change, and she might not never change,and that whats hard to deal with,let her know how you feel because honesty is the best policy,in the long run, anyway
honestly, it works both ways with me and my girlfriend. We both are jealous people and thats just the way we are…. I mean if shes talking to guys, and getting mad at you, than shes obviously being a hypocrit and you should just be straight with her in a non-confrontational way. Just say the next time that she gets upset that it bothers you that she has these feelings yet she openly talks to men. I mean, thats like me telling my girlfriend i dont like it when she goes to bars and than heading out to the nearest club. kinda silly dont you think?