Comments on: How do you treat jealousy issues?

By: SamuelSadness

SamuelSadness — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 16:13:13 +0000

honestly, it works both ways with me and my girlfriend. We both are jealous people and thats just the way we are…. I mean if shes talking to guys, and getting mad at you, than shes obviously being a hypocrit and you should just be straight with her in a non-confrontational way. Just say the next time that she gets upset that it bothers you that she has these feelings yet she openly talks to men. I mean, thats like me telling my girlfriend i dont like it when she goes to bars and than heading out to the nearest club. kinda silly dont you think?

By: cag131996@sbcglobal.net

cag131996@sbcglobal.net — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 15:20:50 +0000

jealousy is a relationship eater, If you can convince her that you are in love her and her alone it might stop, don’t totally blow off your girl friends but cut back on it at least for awhile see what happens, she may change, and she might not never change,and that whats hard to deal with,let her know how you feel because honesty is the best policy,in the long run, anyway

By: martinezd_16

martinezd_16 — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 14:45:39 +0000

dude ima give you a straight answer and its true a little confusing but youll get it soon lol

Well jeolousy is just a part of you that your concsious or whatev is telling you that the person might be doing something wrong that you are capable of doing yourself like for example

if im talking to a girl and my girlfriend gets mad it really means she thinks your going to hook up with her or whatever cause in her point of view when she talks to her guy friends she feels a certain attraction to them and she thinks that the girl is attracted to you or the guy to the girl she might be cheating on you bro idk think about it

By: novicebuttrying

novicebuttrying — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 14:45:02 +0000

usually those in relationships who get jealous over one doing the same thing as the other, are insecure due to their own miss deads. Keep your eye’s and ears open. good luck.

By: Xx[Mandy]xX

Xx[Mandy]xX — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 14:24:51 +0000

People think it able to stop…you can’t you can manage it. It helps when you are around your female friends and shes there give her some attention also, and if shes not there when you talk to her just remind her shes the only one you want, honesty its hard to stop, I’m exactly the same way she is…it sucks and I try to stop and my boyfriend doesn’t understand, I can’t. It also could be that she has low self-esteem…and shes afraid that she is not good enough for you and if you talk to other girls she might lose you because you might want them. But just show her that you want her and only her it helps.

By: jmm

jmm — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 13:25:32 +0000

tell her to get over it…
you can have friends that are girls….

By: AJ Leigh

AJ Leigh — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 13:12:53 +0000

she is worried that u might like her friends b/c they might be prettier than her. its common knowledge that guys look more at the physical side. she just wants to knoe u will not leave her for them.

By: lover21

lover21 — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 12:50:08 +0000

tell her that you love her and that you only have eyes for her and that your not going to trade her for any of your friends so she has nothing to worry about

By: Debby J

Debby J — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 12:20:25 +0000

i have the same problem only opposite. my bf gets SO mad when i talk to my guy friends but i dont get mad if he talks to girls. its so unfair and i hate it but he wont change. their just friends. they mean nothing like that.

By: 123me

123me — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 11:45:02 +0000

Everyone has jealousy issues… wheather they admit it or not. If she didn’t you would wonder if she is that into you. Tell her chill out your a flirt deal with it!!