is jealousy a common emotion during pregnancy or am I going crazy? I need help?
Aug.02, 2008 in
Pregnancy
braysgurl18 asked:
Ive never been this jealous in my life as I am now, 4 months pregnant, theres this girl always hanging around my fiance, shes married but she flirts a lot, yesterday he was going to paint my truck with her, but he said it was somehting him and I could do, luckily the tire was popped, lol so they couldnt, but she seems to be everywhere, anyone know how to get over jealousy? I ve told him I dont really like her and he makes me feel so bad by telling me how nice she is and how much shes helping me out when I move to Viginia, makes her sound like God, and me and ungrateful biatch. So any tips on getting rid of this feelings?
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Ive never been this jealous in my life as I am now, 4 months pregnant, theres this girl always hanging around my fiance, shes married but she flirts a lot, yesterday he was going to paint my truck with her, but he said it was somehting him and I could do, luckily the tire was popped, lol so they couldnt, but she seems to be everywhere, anyone know how to get over jealousy? I ve told him I dont really like her and he makes me feel so bad by telling me how nice she is and how much shes helping me out when I move to Viginia, makes her sound like God, and me and ungrateful biatch. So any tips on getting rid of this feelings?
you guys are so awesome thank you soo much, i wish I could give you all ten points… Thanks for understanding, I just needed to hear wome good ideas of how to handle this and you guys were amazing thank you soo much
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August 3rd, 2008 at 8:06 am
Try telling her politely that you do not appreciate her flirting with him after all she is married and if that doesn’t work speak with her husband about it.
August 4th, 2008 at 6:50 pm
Su novia 'debe tener en sus sentimientos a su examen y dejar de defender a esa mujer. Si por la única razón de cómo se siente ahora mismo. Sólo por el hecho de que no se siente de esa manera, no descuento de cómo se siente. ¿Dónde está su lealtad? Para usted o ella? No me gusta esto, no un poco. Una cosa más, una mujer CONOZCA cosas, su llamado intuición. Puede haber una razón para que usted siente de esta manera.
August 4th, 2008 at 7:20 pm
The same way we seem to make up in walmart or the ones in walmart or the ones in the fumes arent all feel this way but the truth is most men find pregnant woman beautiful try some new cute maternity clothes if you will be less attractive when we feel less attractive when we feel the same way but the truth.
August 5th, 2008 at 10:06 pm
los celos es muy normal. usted está pasando por cambios hormonales. el hecho de que su hombre es siempre hacia arriba para esta muchacha no está ayudando. ¿por qué no usted, una vez que su hombre y esta otra mujer están haciendo cosas juntos? suena a pescado a mí. biotch decir que para volver a casa a su marido que se siente mucho mejor.
August 6th, 2008 at 7:00 pm
Tell him to stay away from her
If you feel that way he needs to respect it
August 7th, 2008 at 11:30 am
Tell your fiance that you would appreciate it if he wouldn’t hang around other chicks. Tell him you are going through a tough time right now. Pregnancy sucks!
August 10th, 2008 at 6:09 pm
The other women alone you two are going to back off she stays away good luck.
August 13th, 2008 at 4:16 am
Todas las emociones bajo el sol es normal durante el embarazo, porque sus hormonas son típicamente en el caos total. Sin embargo, yo le invito a que no coquetear con su hombre, porque le hace incómodo. Si usted pregunta educadamente, la mayoría de la gente se condiderate y leat a hacer un intento. Su marido-se debe tratar de disuadir a ella, también.
August 14th, 2008 at 11:28 pm
No te preocupes, sé egasactly cómo se siente. im no el tipo jelous pero un par de estas muchachas realmente llegar a mi los nervios. su haber un efecto masivo en nuestra relación también. él piensa i dont confiar en él, sino yo. i dont sólo confiar en ellos. i dont saber cómo deshacerse de estos sentimientos, me gustaría saber como y así se van fuera?
August 15th, 2008 at 2:26 am
Women experience a lot of new emotions when they are pregnant, you are carrying around a lot more hormones than you normally would. Your fiance NEEDS to respect this. He also needs to listen to you. Your worries and concerns are definately grounded, and he has to respect your feelings on this. I would ask him if he would be alright with you being chummy chummy friends with a guy that acts just like this girl. People can be slow to things going on sometimes until it hits them in the face. This woman may be married, but she should be spending more time at home, and less with your fiance. He might think it’s innocent right now, and if he does, ask him to be careful, that lots of men thought that what they were doing was innocent until one day it’s all the sudden not. Let him know you appreciate her help, but that you would rather their flirtacious banter be down played, A LOT. {{{HUGS}}} I wish you all the best, it is never easy when we feel we’re about to be stomped on by another woman. And I hope you have a very healthy, happy, wonderful baby.
August 16th, 2008 at 7:21 am
Jealousy can be one of the many mood swings of pregnancy. HOWEVER, your fiance is not helping you out by bringing a girl that you do not like around you.
Explain to him that you are pregnant with his child and that your body is going through some crazy hormonal changes. Let him know that you are feeling some jealousy towards his friend, and perhaps he shouldn’t bring her around as much. After all, having a stress free pregnancy should be more important than any friend.
Just calm down and realize that your hormones are all out of wack, and you can feel things that normally you wouldn’t feel. But also know that your fiance should be helping to keep you stress (and mood swing) free!
August 16th, 2008 at 11:55 am
i was crazy jealous and very insecure during my pregnancy. I kept imagining things about my husband with other women!!!!!!!! i drove him nuts! but the point is, i told him how i felt and he respected that, even if i sounded completely insane and made the strangest accusations! he did everything possible after that to stay away from any women he knew, even my friends. just speak to your fiancee tell him you pregnancy is making your emotions go haywire and that you are a lot more sensitive about certain things then you were before, especially when it comes to his relationship with other women. if he is understanding and caring, he will make you feel more comfortable. all the best with your pregnancy.