jealousy help
Meliski asked:

Okay. I am 14, and I have been with someone for one year, who is like a brother to one of my good friends. The problem is that I get so Jealous of her when she’s with him, because I know she used to like him a lot, to the point that she left every guy she could like for him. this is a major problem for me because I’ve tried talking to her about it and she just blows up in my face.. I’ve tried talking to him about it and he just looks at me funny.. I’ve also tried to get over it by telling myself they really are brother and sister. How do I get over this jealousy problem i have, and FAST because I know I’m gonna have more problems next year at football games with him.
She has a boyfriend, no i will not split them up, no way! I’m not insecure, i trust him completely. But i look at her sometimes as the only person who i can envy.
and it’s not like i WANT to be jealous, believe me. I’d rather be completely calm. I cant just stop being that way all of a sudden, and I just need advice on what I can do myself to help get over this whole emotion


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