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7 Responses to “My friend is heavier than me and it is creating jealousy issues?”
of course….i mean she’s trying to make herself seem better…but really she’s really insecure about her weight…..i think you should let your friend know that’s she’s beautiful no matter what
-hope i helped:D
Shes probably only pointing out your flaws because shes upset about her own. Your friends and you should be able to trust each other and be honest with each other without hurting each others feelings, if she is upset about being heavy maybe you can help her slim down and help her feel better about herself the way she is?
I’ll be honest, I was the heavier of my friends. Not fat at all just bigger, because all my friends were size 1 or 3 and I was a size 8.
Damn right it can cause jealously issues, I hated it because all my friends could share clothes and I couldn’t or that all the guys like them because they were skinny.
Society is cruel to people that are bigger, people that aren’t even fat, but just bigger, and your friend is looking for a way to cope with it at your expense. She shouldn’t be pointing out your flaws, that’s kind of mean, but I did the same thing when I was younger.
My advice to you and I wish that one of my friends would have did this is sit down and tell her how you feel, it might sting a little bit but it will get how you feel off your chest and maybe make her feel more secure.
She probably is jealous and she don’t know a better way to say it than to point the “flaw” finger at you. It seems to always be that way for some; that they will always be the “fat” friend and there will always be a skinny one or a cute one and an ugly one. Guys are the same way if you take a look at them. One who gets the girls and the one who don’t.
We can be thankful that their is someone for everyone, most of the times.
The best way to counter her attacks is to give her some attention. Say she has a nice shirt on or her hair looks nice today, something to ward off the attacks on you. She won’t expect that at all. She doesn’t point out your weight because like you said she KNOWS. Give her something back that she doesn’t KNOW.
of course….i mean she’s trying to make herself seem better…but really she’s really insecure about her weight…..i think you should let your friend know that’s she’s beautiful no matter what
-hope i helped:D
Just ignore her when she metions it. But how much do you weigh?
both of you get over it.
Eat more jelly doughnuts and catch up to her.
There, problem solved.
Shes probably only pointing out your flaws because shes upset about her own. Your friends and you should be able to trust each other and be honest with each other without hurting each others feelings, if she is upset about being heavy maybe you can help her slim down and help her feel better about herself the way she is?
I’ll be honest, I was the heavier of my friends. Not fat at all just bigger, because all my friends were size 1 or 3 and I was a size 8.
Damn right it can cause jealously issues, I hated it because all my friends could share clothes and I couldn’t or that all the guys like them because they were skinny.
Society is cruel to people that are bigger, people that aren’t even fat, but just bigger, and your friend is looking for a way to cope with it at your expense. She shouldn’t be pointing out your flaws, that’s kind of mean, but I did the same thing when I was younger.
My advice to you and I wish that one of my friends would have did this is sit down and tell her how you feel, it might sting a little bit but it will get how you feel off your chest and maybe make her feel more secure.
Hope that helps!!!
She probably is jealous and she don’t know a better way to say it than to point the “flaw” finger at you. It seems to always be that way for some; that they will always be the “fat” friend and there will always be a skinny one or a cute one and an ugly one. Guys are the same way if you take a look at them. One who gets the girls and the one who don’t.
We can be thankful that their is someone for everyone, most of the times.
The best way to counter her attacks is to give her some attention. Say she has a nice shirt on or her hair looks nice today, something to ward off the attacks on you. She won’t expect that at all. She doesn’t point out your weight because like you said she KNOWS. Give her something back that she doesn’t KNOW.