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David Butler asked:


Are you dating a person known to be jealous? Jealousy is one of the most destructive and painful emotions in a dating relationship. A jealous dater can think and do some whacky things he or she would not normally think of doing. That’s why overcoming jealousy when it crops up is so important. According to a North American survey of marriage counselors, 33% of all couples in marriage counseling have jealousy problems as a root issue. Since jealousy is a univesral emotion, I suspect European, Asian, African, South American Asian couples have similar dealings with jealousy.

Among Christian single couples, jealousy affects both traditional dating and courtship love relationships.

Many folks who are jealous daters also deal with being control freaks. Just what does it mean to be jealous? Webster’s Dictionary rightly defines jealousy as a “fearfulness or wariness of being replaced by a rival.” In a dating or romantic relationship, this means the jealous girlfriend or jealous guy suspects there is a rival for the affection or attention of their partner. The object of the dater’s jealousy could be an ex-boyfriend or girlfriend, (the most frequent complaint) or other things such as the person’s children, job or even the family dog. (Don’t laugh about the dog, I once had a Family Court case related to this issue)

The problem with jealousy is that there are several kinds, which can get a little confusing. For example, there is God’s jealousy (Exodus 20:5), which is always holy, just, and desirous of others’ wellbeing. Then there is human jealousy, which often ends with disasterous results. Solomon writes of this kind in Song of Songs: “Jealousy is as cruel as the grave” (Sgs 8:6).

As sinners, we all need to learn how to cope with the human kind of jealousy, whether we experience it in our own hearts, or have others being jealous of us.

Most singles are able to control the acting out their jealous impulses. However, overcoming jealousy for others is almost impossible without God’s help. This form of jealousy is pathological, and could lead to the crimes of passion we often read about in the newspapers, or see in movies.

As a single Christian seeking true love in a relationship, it’s very important for your own dating safety to know some “red flag” signs of a pathologically jealous person.

Red Flags of Jealousy Out of Control

* The dating or courtship partner continually accuses the other of being unfaithful when there is no basis for him or her to think this way.

* The jealous person checks phone bills, emails or the cell phone directory to check the partner’s records of communication. They may even forbid their romantic partner to speak with certain members of the opposite sex.

* The jealous dating partner forbids (ie: orders) the other single dater what he or she can and cannot wear in public.

* The person with jealousy issues may go through the personal belongings of the other party looking for “evidence” of unfaithfulness

* The person with out-of-control jealousy may follow, or have one of their friends follow the other person to make sure they are being faithful. In extreme cases they may even ‘bug” the home using electronic equipment.

* The jealous party will keep tabs on their date by calling them constantly throughout the day. They may give an excuse (”I just missed you”) as to why they are calling so frequently, but in fact are distrustful of them.

* The jealous person may want to be with the other person 24/7, and if the other single resists, there may be a physcial or emotional outburst.

* The jealous dating partner forces the other to give account of all their free time away from them.

* The person with pathological jealousy may threaten to do physical harm to themselves or to their dating partner.

If you are a single Christian in any kind dating relationship where one or more of the above jealousy red flags exist, we recommend:

1. Lovingly communicating to your friend that they need professional help.

2. Consider getting out of the relationship as soon as you can to ensure your own safety. While you may be tempted to stay in an effort to change them, or the jealous partner may make an emotional promise of change, please don’t give in.

Overcoming Jealousy

Overcoming jealousy will be easier if you understand its origin. Ask yourself: “Do my feelings have a basis in fact (the behavior of the dating partner), or are they coming from my own insecurity?”

If there is actually something the other party is doing that is inciting you to be jealous, have a heart to heart discussion with them. Often, an honest exchange of feelings will solve the problem.

Understand that your jealous behavior may actually drive away your date, the very thing you feared might happen

Admit you have a problem and seek guidance from trusted freinds who know your situation, and/or an understanding Christian counselor or minister.

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Terry Ross asked:


Jealousy in marriage is destructive, a real relationship killer and one of those common marriage problems that needs to be resolved.

In you let feelings of jealousy develop and escalate the mind will run wild, imagine the enemy around every corner, question everything your partner thinks, says and does. In worst case scenario’s unresolved and unchecked jealousy has developed beyond the end of a relationship, into a long-term vendetta and in extreme cases extended to the loss of life.

As much as we would like to deny it, most people struggle with jealous emotions at some point in their lives and, in marriage, it is a one of those common marriage problems that can develop from feelings of insecurity or neglect.

We now live in a society where marriages are often as a result of a second, a fifth or any number of relationships and are, in many cases, second or subsequent marriages. This is just society as we now know it but it can leave spouses insecure, especially when a previous partner is still around, and particularly in the case when children are involved.

People can enter into marriages with so much previous baggage that it often hard to settle into a secure, trusting environment full of self worth and self-belief.

Marital jealousy develops from numerous situations and no matter how much you try and tell yourself there is no need for concern your mind just doesn’t listen and all the while your partner continues with the behaviour that is instilling the feeling of insecurity throughout your very soul.

• Some people are natural flirts who draw the opposite sex like magnets, which, once the ring is on the finger, leaves partners totally insecure and just waiting for the moment when they are dumped for the next person that comes along. The partner who flirts often has no idea what impact their actions have on their relationship. They don’t actually believe that they are doing anything wrongs but perceive their actions to be friendly and not harmful.

• No one could ever be accused of being unnecessarily jealous in the case of infidelity beyond which, if the marriage survives (and in many instances they do), strong measures need to be put in place to enable the cheated partner come to trust their partner again and control the feeling of jealousy.

• Following the break up of a marriage children need to feel that the split isn’t as a result of anything that they have done. This leaves parents over protective, desperate to make amends for one parent environment and often at the expense of new relationships.

• Another of the common marriage problems is that husbands feel neglected when a new baby arrives no matter how much they wanted the child in the first place. A baby’s mere existence is totally life changing with more attention towards the child and a complete ‘nose dive’ in marital relations. With the bond between mother and child being that much closer it can leave fathers feeling neglected, unwanted and a total spare part.

With friends of mine the jealousy actually worked the other way with the wife feeling totally trapped after the birth of their first child and her husband spending all his time looking after the baby. She just yearned for the life they had prior to children when they enjoyed a good social life and spent all their free time together.

• Too much time at work can leave your partner feeling very insecure, especially when your hours at work increase and you spend less and less time at home for the sake of your family but if we think about it is it really for the sake of the family…..

People get fixated on their goals and have no concept on how this is perceived or how it impacts on their relationship and their family life.

Without the 100% backing of both parties, long hours and continuous travel can prove to be a real relationship killer and, if left unchecked, one of those common marriage problems from which there is no return.

The list is endless and jealousy in and of itself is not a bad thing, it’s strong indication that you really care. The main thing we need to remember is not to let the jealousy consume, arouse fury and become destructive.

If you are suffering from feelings of jealousy look at the cause, question your feelings and determine whether they have any foundation. Is your partner actually doing anything wrong, have they really done anything to drive your jealous emotions or have you just let your emotions spiral out of control.

If the fault is on your side, learning to recognise the fact is the first step towards controlling such an emotional and destructive thought process. It allows you to discuss your fears with your partner, explain how you feel and seek there help in enabling you to over come your jealous emotions, strengthen your marriage and build a more solid foundation for the future.

Communication is the foundation to marital success. If you can learn to communicate then you can express your emotions in a non-confrontational, non-accusatory, understanding and supportive environment.

Don’t just blurt your fears out such as ‘I think you are having an affair’ it might not be true and it will just add fuel to the fire. Explain that something seems to have changed in your relationship, explain what has changed and what makes you think your marriage is different, don’t blame, don’t get emotional just explain to your spouse what is going through your head and seek their help in trying to sort it out.

One of the most common marriage problems is expecting our partners to always know what we want and how we feel. But even with a ring on our finger we aren’t always mind readers, if we haven’t communicated our feelings and our partner doesn’t know they have, in our eyes, done something wrong, how do we expect them to do anything about it!

Tell them now, save your marriage before its too late. You have everything to gain and nothing to lose. Even if the answer isn’t what you want to hear knowledge is power and with knowledge comes the ability to turn your life around.

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Richard MacKenzie asked:


Jealousy is an amazingly negative thing to suffer at the hands of. In fact it is a problem that over the last decade a just seemingly been increasing and causing many heartaches and suffering in the people that it affects. It is becoming more and more responsible for relationship break ups and divorces the world over. If you are a victim of jealousy you will be able to understand the torment that it will cause you as it rips through you and the people around you.

I wanted to put this simple article together today for you and people like you that are in the same situation. Thousands of people worldwide are suffering just the way that you are and I hope that for each of you that this articles helps take the edge of what you are going through and points you in the right direction.

I mainly use hypnosis and self hypnosis with the clients that I help through my products and private one to one sessions, as it is what I believe to be the best approach available today as it helps quickly to heal the pain and discomfort of jealousy so that the sufferer can move on. Just imagine being able to walk away from you jealousy right now. If you had this option - would you take it? Are you ready for a life free from the torment and distress that jealousy causes you? Well now is the time to make the conscious decision that today - you will make a start to control and deal with your jealousy for the benefit of yourself and those around you. Your Jealousy doesn’t just affect you, but also massively affects those that love you the most. So making the decision to move on from this today is not just the right thing for you, but for them also.

If you really are serious about putting your jealousy behind you and moving on to get the life that you deserve - then I hope that you are astute and smart enough to take my advice and start making changes today. I recommend that you use hypnosis and self hypnosis by starting with a hypnosis download or recording. This way you can remain true to yourself and start working on this today. Just think - you could already be feeling less controlled by your jealousy in just a few hours. Today you have the opportunity. It is up to you to grab it with both hands and move on. I only hope that you want it enough to make the right decision today and get on top of your jealousy.

I wish you the very best of luck and success.

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FRANCIS K GITHINJI asked:


Marriage is mostly as a result of friendship, love and compatibility. Each others company is of paramount importance in marriage. You share so much in common and have invested a lot in your marriage to let it go down in flames. Marriage help can save all that binds you together and ensure that you remain intact. Monogamy is the way to go for many marriages but as a way to offer failing marriage help, many are opting for open relationships. If as a couple you have realized that your marriage problem is called by monotony, try open relationships. They have a way of turning around failing marriages to ones that work. All the problems are solved and the love is renewed once again. The marriage blossoms and you grow grey together.

Open relationship is an arrangement where couples agree to have sexual partners outside marriage while their marriage still remains intact. Both couples have to be comfortable with such an arrangement. One thing you should maintain to embrace such failing marriage help is honesty. It is the virtue which made you to agree and propose the arrangement so do not hide about the number of sexual encounters you have had at a given period of time. Talk it all and have fun. Openness in such intimate matters allow communication to flow in all other areas in your marriage including finances.

You should be keen to rule out jealousy in open relationships. If you are are the type of people who suffer from chronic jealousy you should stick to monogamy. To go for such failing marriage help avoid insecurity. Open relationships require self confidence, confidence in the your spouse and in your marriage too. It won’t work for you if you tend to think that your spouse might find someone else who she/he might like better than you. If your marriage lacked in the area of sex, you are outsourcing the service to make it complete. I am sure you must be compatible in all other areas and you should trust that what brings you together is unique. It must be greater than sex.

For open relationships to work as a failing marriage help, set some ground rules to work with. You should agree on the venues for sexual encounters with other partners. For instances you can agree to bring your lovers in your house but set aside the bed room as for the two of you only. You can as well agree to keep the house out of bounds for the third parties. Such open talks brings you even closer it is unbelievable. What about coming up with a veto list? This is a list of proposed people to involve in your open relationship. Even the most jealous proof partner will be uncomfortable with his/her partner having sex with some people. Agree on the class, age and other categories of your sexual partners. While at this, agree on the type of contraceptive to use to avoid bringing more problems to your marriage. Birth control is important if lack of kids is not the reason for your failing marriage.

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Paul Sterling & Kristin Denton asked:


So, what do humans and the frilled lizard have in common? Sometimes, when we’re afraid, we both puff out our faces and ears and try to act really, really scary. The fear in jealousy is so strong that it can sometimes make us react to situations like a frilled lizard, just to make sure that our partner gets the point that we don’t want them to stray.
And how many times has that ever made your beloved admire you more? Probably not many…
People use the word ‘jealousy’ as a feeling, but Marshall Rosenberg, the creator of Nonviolent Communication would probably say that it’s a thought.
For example, ‘abandoned’ is a thought—it’s your negative evaluation of somebody leaving you. But what if they IRS abandoned you and your audit? Is that necessarily negative? No…. so ‘abandoned’ is an evaluation of, or thought about, somebody leaving you.
In the same way, ‘jealousy’ isn’t really a feeling - it’s a thought. The event may be your beloved paying attention to somebody else in a way that you think means s/he may leave you (or that they love another
person more than you). It’s the meaning that we attach to the event that we label ‘jealousy.’
The true feeling underneath jealousy is usually fear-that your beloved will leave you for another person. And fear is usually uncomfortable, if not down right painful. It awakens our limbic brain (the reptilian brain) and puts us in a fight or flight mode. We yell, we threaten, we puff out our ears and try to look real scary and go, “Bwah! Bwah!!” and generally look real stupid.
So, when you feel triggered by the fear that underlies jealousy, it would help to call it what it is. Call it fear. Say to your partner: “Honey,
(Observation) “When I saw you talking to your ex this evening…
(Feelings) “I felt frightened…
(Needs) “Because I have a need for emotional safety.
(Request) “Would you be willing to tell me truthfully if you’re falling back in love with her?”
Those are the four steps to speaking honestly using Nonviolent Communication. It’s scary to put your heart out to your beloved and expose yourself as being afraid. Most people don’t like to admit they’re scared. But isn’t it a lot better than fighting like a frilled lizard with your lover?
Asking the question in the nonviolent manner doesn’t imply that your lover did anything wrong. You’re taking full responsibility for the feeling of fear, not blaming them for having done anything ‘bad.’
And, of course, this is just one way to ask one little question about your feelings of jealousy, but the issue may be bigger than that. It may be useful to sit and look at where in your life somebody did leave you (or worse, didn’t love you but didn’t leave you, either). Those old wounds may be coming up now for you to look at, but your present lover may not be doing anything out of line.
And always give your inner reptilian brain—your inner frilled lizard that puffs out its cheeks and tries to look scary—a lot of love. You developed that response because at some time you had a beautiful need for safety in a relationship that wasn’t met. Your frilled lizard is just trying to protect you in your current relationship.

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FRANCIS K GITHINJI asked:


May be you are too jealous but as you might have realized, it does not come by choice. It is a strong emotion which works you up to regrettable levels. May be you are the kind of a person that does very stupid things at the heat of the moment and you are left embarrassed. You might spot your lover with a prospectus boss, start hailing abuses and may be even get physical. This is a dangerous level which might drive your lover away from you unless it is kept in check. To overcome jealousy in romantic relationships in romantic relationships, you must first of all discover the root of the disturbing emotion. Did she cheat on you once? Does the other person shower him with overflowing favors? It will do you good if you understand the root of insecurity.

To overcome jealousy in romantic relationships in romantic relationships, learn how to handle competition. Attractive people are approached for dating all the time. Accept what you cannot change and walk around it. To remain top on the list you must be able to beat others who might be in competition for her/his love. Jealousy will only eat you up and leave you feeling bad, sad and unloved. Do not walk in the shadow of ignorance. If you do not reveal your jealousy, you will learn so much about your lover. He/she will voluntarily tell you about who is chasing after him or her but just with a light touch. Your reaction might determine what should be communicated to you in the future. If you are abreast with his/her admirers you are way step ahead because you have a chance to beat them before they start their game. To overcome jealousy in romantic relationships encourage openness in a relationship.

To overcome jealousy in romantic relationships, talk about it. When your lover knows that it is makes you uneasy when you are in a company of some people, he/she is a position to do a lot to save you the agony. She might start flirting with you when the company is around and may be the public show of affection will reduce your insecurity thus help you overcome jealousy in romantic relationships. She is best placed to assure you her love and take it a step further by announcing it to the whole world. Do not die with your feelings. Confess what your love for her is driving at. Chances are it will do you more good than harm. Off course when you declare your emotions it will be a sure sign of love and affection towards her.

Why i encourage communication is because some things we do as human beings are intentional. Your lover might be subjecting you to so much heartache in a mission to prove a thing. These are games lovers play. Some believe that a jealous lover is a true lover. Due to the rising levels of betrayal and malice in the dating scene, people are keen to look for real love. She might be raining praises about another gentleman just to watch your reaction. If you respond positively, the subjection stops and life continues. If you consider it a weakness and persevere you are subjected to more. Do not overcome jealousy in romantic relationships on your own. Involve your lover and you might even discover it was not your weakness after all.

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Robert Elias Najemy asked:


Bill is very jealous of Efi and does not want her to ever leave the house without him. He is afraid that some man might approach her, and he cannot stand the idea of another man even looking at her. Although she has given him no concrete reason to fear, for some reason, he does not trust her. He feels intense fear, self-rejection and anger.
His sense of self-worth as a man is highly associated with his being only man whom Efi could possible care for. When asked why he fears this so much and gives so much attention to this possibility when he has never seen Efi flirting or paying attention to any other man, he cannot answer. He does not know why, but he totally loses control, intimidates and even threatens physical violence when Efi goes out of the house for a reason other than shopping.
Ironically, Bill’s eyes tend to follow attractive women whenever they pass. His mind is very focused on women. Perhaps this is because his mother gave him very little attention, or perhaps she never breast fed him, or she herself had a tendency to flirt, something which demeaned his father and made Bill feel ashamed. He may have, at that time, made a vow never to be demeaned like his father.
Efi, on the other hand, comes from a family that allowed very little freedom. She was free to go on her first date only after the age of eighteen. Now with Bill’s problem, she is experiencing the same restrictions and clashes she’d had with her parents. She is living a personal reoccurring nightmare.
At first she tried to avoid conflicts by not going out at all, but she nearly went crazy. She tried to plead and reason with Bill, but the subject was a source of great pain and anger for him and he inevitably ended up threatening her.
Efi is not interested in other men, but she cannot stand this suppression and distrust. She begins to go out ever more often and their conflicts have become more frequent and intense.
What can they do to get out of this vicious circle?
What do they need to learn to solve this problem?
Bill:
Does he need to work on his childhood years and get free of that image of his mother flirting?
Does he need to let go of his self-doubt?
Is his lesson to feel his self-respect and self-worth as a man independent of what his wife does?
Does he need to learn to care more about Efi and her needs?
Does he need to learn to trust her more?
Does he need to communicate differently, expressing his needs and fears and not his anger and threats?
Perhaps he needs to become more self-sufficient.
Efi:
Is her lesson to understand Bill and help him feel safe?
Is it to go out anyway and let him deal with his emotions?
Does she need to overcome her programming from her childhood years so she can feel her right to be independent and also free herself from fear of conflict?
Does she need to respect his needs more and feel her freedom while helping her loved one?
Does she need to respect her own needs more?
Does she need to find a different way of communicating with him?
Does she need to overcome guilt?
Both need to work on their childhood programmings.

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Jane Straus asked:


Dear Jane,

How can I let go of resentment towards my mother for being thin and lose weight myself?

I wanted to answer this question because, even if weight is not everyone’s issue, resentment and jealousy torture most of us at one time or another.

Jealousy is an indicator that we believe someone else has something that we cannot attain. We may experience jealousy about someone’s looks, their financial status, their popularity/success, or their personal life. But it all comes down to the belief that we can’t have what they have.

Why would we believe this unless we didn’t think we were equally deserving? So jealousy helps us recognize that we are feeling unworthy in some way. And unworthiness is the bottom line issue for almost all of us. The good news is that it’s curable.

To heal it, we have to change the question from, “How do I get what so-and-so has?” to “How do I get that I am worthy?” What I talk about in my book, Enough Is Enough!, is that we won’t necessarily wake up one morning with a belief in our own worthiness. Like any other belief, it takes repetition and practice to “get it.”

So how do you let go of resentment towards your mother for being thin and lose weight yourself? How do you get that you are worthy of having the body you desire?

Before eating or before opportunities to exercise, you ask what I believe is the most healing question you can pose:

“If I knew my worthiness in this moment, what would I do?”

Whether we want to lose weight or experience more love, success, or happiness, I recommend asking yourself this question at least ten times a day every day. You will find that as your sense of self-worth grows, you will suffer less from jealousy and resentment.

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Mark C Roberts asked:


Jealousy Help
 Getting jealousy help is as easy as beginning a program of self hypnosis.  When you need help with jealousy it is because you have come to realize that jealousy is destroying your happiness.  For those who seek help jealousy is an emotion that is out of control and needs to be tamed before permanent damage is done to relationships with friends and family.  With help jealous people can learn how to improve their self esteem and how to put a stop to those jealous thoughts which are doing nothing except creating misery.
 Recognizing the Irrational
 One of the interesting characteristics of jealous people is that they often recognize their thoughts and behaviors are irrational.  Yet they continue to attack the people in their life with verbal accusations that are unfounded.  In the extreme cases, jealousy leads to violent behaviors such as stalking and even physical abuse.  The feelings may be irrational, but they can have very real consequences.  Getting jealousy help is critical no matter what stage of jealousy you may be experiencing.
 Driving Love Away
 When you have jealous tendencies, in effect you are driving the people away that you love most or would like to be friends with if you just could control your emotions.  People pick up on the fact you are jealous and will shy away from you and refuse to be friends.  If you are jealous of your spouse, your constant criticisms and accusations can lead to separation or divorce.  You know you are driving them away but feel powerless to do anything about it.  Getting jealousy help through self hypnosis not only helps you overcome the anxiousness you are always feeling, but teaches you how to control your thoughts and let go of your fears.
 Sources of Jealousy
 In the cases where a spouse really does give you reason to doubt their loyalty, jealousy is still not the answer.  When you get help with jealousy you learn that this feeling is useless in that it solves no problems in your life.  Instead the feelings and thoughts drive you to take the wrong actions such as verbal attacks which put the other person on the defensive from the start.  Jealousy arises out of fear.  You fear you are not good enough or smart enough or sexy enough.  You fear you will be rejected and have low self-esteem.
 Positive Beliefs in Yourself
 Through self hypnosis you can learn to recognize the thoughts which lead to jealousy.  You get jealousy help by learning to stop those thoughts before they get out of hand while also letting go of the fears.  Self hypnosis and Neuro Linguistic Programming focus on addressing your harmful thinking style and then teaching you how to turn negative thoughts into positive action.
 Positive Reinforcement

By regularly following a program of self hypnosis, your change in thinking styles gets positive reinforcement.  You can learn how to recognize your sterling qualities which will improve your self esteem.  Your change in thinking patterns is then linked to a change in behaviors.  You will stop making unfounded accusations, learn to approach situations rationally, and learn to believe in yourself.  When you need jealousy help problems have reached a stage where they are interfering in your life.  Though self hypnosis, you can get jealousy help and begin to lead a new life free of the destructive emotion.
 Using Self Hypnosis Recordings For Jealousy Help
 Self Hypnosis Recordings can be used to tackle a whole range of different problems, jealousy included. Overcome Jealousy by Joseph Clough is particularly good for those seeking jealousy help; this is available In both CD and MP3 formats as well as with a sixty day money-back guarantee.  

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Richard MacKenzie asked:


Do you find yourself sneakily checking your partner’s phone or mail? Are you forever questioning your loved one on their whereabouts, even if they have just been to the local shop? Do you find yourself tormented by thoughts of your lover with someone else? Well if you do then you will understand just how savage your jealousy can be towards your relationship and how it can take its toll on your partner as well as yourself. Jealousy and insecurity are two massive problems facing our modern day culture and if you are a victim then you are not alone as they are two of the biggest reasons for relationship break-ups and divorce today!

Hello I am hypnotherapist and author of Self Change Hypnosis, Richard MacKenzie and for the past several years I have helped thousands of couples with overcoming jealousy, both through my private hypnotherapy practice and through my products and book. When I first approach the topic of using hypnosis to combat jealousy, people seem a bit puzzled; however it is the ‘common-sense’ approach - what with its speed and efficiency. In fact these same people are very often amazed when they get the results that they yearn for.

While in Hypnosis you will learn to ultimately re-program the part of the brain that is referred to as your sub- conscious or un-conscious mind. This is where the habit and behaviour of jealousy are, so therefore it is the best place to start. After this you can use hypnosis to begin to work on your overall confidence and self esteem levels which will really work for you to get you some great results. Just imagine what life would be like if your jealousy disappeared - How great would your relationship be? How much more secure would you feel, knowing your can accept the wholehearted love of your partner without being suspicious?

If you could achieve all this right now… would you?

Well if you really want help and you desire to get your jealousy sorted then hypnosis or hypnotherapy is just the right thing for you. I recommend that you start with a hypnosis download, recording or seek out your local hypnotherapist who will be more than happy to help you out.

Remember - you are not alone. Thousands of people out there today are in the same boat; however you’re the one reading this so you have a chance to escape your jealousy forever.

Best of luck!

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