Richard Mackenzie asked:


Jealousy is one of the most human of all emotions, and each one of us has experienced it at one time or the other. Jealousy towards your spouse/partner, jealousy towards a sibling, jealousy towards a co-worker, these are but a few examples of this human emotion. While in some cases this jealousy is at a controllable stage, there are yet others when this emotion just takes over the lives of people, and it is then that the warning bells start ringing. Some amount of jealousy is natural to all people, but when it becomes an obsessive trait there is cause to worry, for driven by this Green Devil, we end up hurting the people we love and causing mental torture to both them and us. Once you have identified this emotion as one that has to be dealt with, hypnotherapy for jealousy is one of the most effective routes you could take to control it.
Jealousy, is a result of an over active imagination and an underlying insecurity. As someone rightly said, “an idle mind is a devil’s workshop”. This misguided imagination makes us do some terrible things. You can’t stop thinking about your partner, each and every innocent thing that he says and does, seem to take on epic proportions of infidelity to you. You find yourself imagining scenarios about your partner, and in the process torment yourself. You know that it’s not good for your relationship, but you simply can’t stop. Jealousy can be tragic and devastating to a relationship, it can create bitterness beyond imagination. In some cases it can lead to domination, controlling behavior and even physical violence; and I do not need to wax eloquent on how effective these things are in killing love and relationships. If you realize that it’s time to keep a check on your jealousy, you have already taken the first step towards bettering situations. Hypnotherapy for jealousy will take you a long way from there.
As I said, jealousy is often caused by our insecurities; hypnotherapy for jealousy takes stock of the past and present events in your life and identifies the core issue, which might be the catalyst to such behavior. Once the trigger is identified, hypnotherapy for jealousy helps you get over the negative emotions, through the power of positive thinking and auto-suggestions. Insecurity is effectively dealt with by changing your self-image and perception. Your self esteem is boosted by auto suggestions, and this reflects in your outward behavior. Your fertile imagination is weeded out thoroughly for unwanted scenes and undesirable stimuli, to give it a more healthy and positive outlook.
Hypnotherapy for jealousy works faster than you can imagine. Your partner will be astounded to see the new you, and it is needless to say that it will bring about a dramatic positive change in your relationship. Gone are the ugly scenes and the nagging suspicion, both you and your partner will benefit from these changes. If you stop imagining things, and learn to trust your partner, you will stop torturing yourself mentally. On the other hand, with this renewed trust your partner will feel less threatened and controlled, and will subconsciously react in a positive way towards you. Remember that though you feel your overwhelming love for your partner justifies your desire to control his/her actions, you know deep down it is not the done thing. Add to that the fact that chewing your nails while imagining worst possible scenes involving your mate, and an imaginary “Other” will bring you no good. So its time you got yourself a manicure for your hands, and hypnotherapy for your soul.

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Terry Ross asked:


Jealousy in marriage is destructive, a real relationship killer and one of those common marriage problems that needs to be resolved.

In you let feelings of jealousy develop and escalate the mind will run wild, imagine the enemy around every corner, question everything your partner thinks, says and does. In worst case scenario’s unresolved and unchecked jealousy has developed beyond the end of a relationship, into a long-term vendetta and in extreme cases extended to the loss of life.

As much as we would like to deny it, most people struggle with jealous emotions at some point in their lives and, in marriage, it is a one of those common marriage problems that can develop from feelings of insecurity or neglect.

We now live in a society where marriages are often as a result of a second, a fifth or any number of relationships and are, in many cases, second or subsequent marriages. This is just society as we now know it but it can leave spouses insecure, especially when a previous partner is still around, and particularly in the case when children are involved.

People can enter into marriages with so much previous baggage that it often hard to settle into a secure, trusting environment full of self worth and self-belief.

Marital jealousy develops from numerous situations and no matter how much you try and tell yourself there is no need for concern your mind just doesn’t listen and all the while your partner continues with the behaviour that is instilling the feeling of insecurity throughout your very soul.

Some people are natural flirts who draw the opposite sex like magnets, which, once the ring is on the finger, leaves partners totally insecure and just waiting for the moment when they are dumped for the next person that comes along. The partner who flirts often has no idea what impact their actions have on their relationship. They don’t actually believe that they are doing anything wrongs but perceive their actions to be friendly and not harmful.

No one could ever be accused of being unnecessarily jealous in the case of infidelity beyond which, if the marriage survives (and in many instances they do), strong measures need to be put in place to enable the cheated partner come to trust their partner again and control the feeling of jealousy.

Following the break up of a marriage children need to feel that the split isn’t as a result of anything that they have done. This leaves parents over protective, desperate to make amends for one parent environment and often at the expense of new relationships.

Another of the common marriage problems is that husbands feel neglected when a new baby arrives no matter how much they wanted the child in the first place. A baby’s mere existence is totally life changing with more attention towards the child and a complete nose dive’ in marital relations. With the bond between mother and child being that much closer it can leave fathers feeling neglected, unwanted and a total spare part.

With friends of mine the jealousy actually worked the other way with the wife feeling totally trapped after the birth of their first child and her husband spending all his time looking after the baby. She just yearned for the life they had prior to children when they enjoyed a good social life and spent all their free time together.

Too much time at work can leave your partner feeling very insecure, especially when your hours at work increase and you spend less and less time at home for the sake of your family but if we think about it is it really for the sake of the family…..

People get fixated on their goals and have no concept on how this is perceived or how it impacts on their relationship and their family life.

Without the 100% backing of both parties, long hours and continuous travel can prove to be a real relationship killer and, if left unchecked, one of those common marriage problems from which there is no return.

The list is endless and jealousy in and of itself is not a bad thing, it’s strong indication that you really care. The main thing we need to remember is not to let the jealousy consume, arouse fury and become destructive.

If you are suffering from feelings of jealousy look at the cause, question your feelings and determine whether they have any foundation. Is your partner actually doing anything wrong, have they really done anything to drive your jealous emotions or have you just let your emotions spiral out of control.

If the fault is on your side, learning to recognise the fact is the first step towards controlling such an emotional and destructive thought process. It allows you to discuss your fears with your partner, explain how you feel and seek there help in enabling you to over come your jealous emotions, strengthen your marriage and build a more solid foundation for the future.

Communication is the foundation to marital success. If you can learn to communicate then you can express your emotions in a non-confrontational, non-accusatory, understanding and supportive environment.

Don’t just blurt your fears out such as I think you are having an affair’ it might not be true and it will just add fuel to the fire. Explain that something seems to have changed in your relationship, explain what has changed and what makes you think your marriage is different, don’t blame, don’t get emotional just explain to your spouse what is going through your head and seek their help in trying to sort it out.

One of the most common marriage problems is expecting our partners to always know what we want and how we feel. But even with a ring on our finger we aren’t always mind readers, if we haven’t communicated our feelings and our partner doesn’t know they have, in our eyes, done something wrong, how do we expect them to do anything about it!

Tell them now, save your marriage before its too late. You have everything to gain and nothing to lose. Even if the answer isn’t what you want to hear knowledge is power and with knowledge comes the ability to turn your life around.

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Mark C Roberts asked:


Jealousy Help
Getting jealousy help is as easy as beginning a program of self hypnosis. When you need help with jealousy it is because you have come to realize that jealousy is destroying your happiness. For those who seek help jealousy is an emotion that is out of control and needs to be tamed before permanent damage is done to relationships with friends and family. With help jealous people can learn how to improve their self esteem and how to put a stop to those jealous thoughts which are doing nothing except creating misery.
Recognizing the Irrational
One of the interesting characteristics of jealous people is that they often recognize their thoughts and behaviors are irrational. Yet they continue to attack the people in their life with verbal accusations that are unfounded. In the extreme cases, jealousy leads to violent behaviors such as stalking and even physical abuse. The feelings may be irrational, but they can have very real consequences. Getting jealousy help is critical no matter what stage of jealousy you may be experiencing.
Driving Love Away
When you have jealous tendencies, in effect you are driving the people away that you love most or would like to be friends with if you just could control your emotions. People pick up on the fact you are jealous and will shy away from you and refuse to be friends. If you are jealous of your spouse, your constant criticisms and accusations can lead to separation or divorce. You know you are driving them away but feel powerless to do anything about it. Getting jealousy help through self hypnosis not only helps you overcome the anxiousness you are always feeling, but teaches you how to control your thoughts and let go of your fears.
Sources of Jealousy
In the cases where a spouse really does give you reason to doubt their loyalty, jealousy is still not the answer. When you get help with jealousy you learn that this feeling is useless in that it solves no problems in your life. Instead the feelings and thoughts drive you to take the wrong actions such as verbal attacks which put the other person on the defensive from the start. Jealousy arises out of fear. You fear you are not good enough or smart enough or sexy enough. You fear you will be rejected and have low self-esteem.
Positive Beliefs in Yourself
Through self hypnosis you can learn to recognize the thoughts which lead to jealousy. You get jealousy help by learning to stop those thoughts before they get out of hand while also letting go of the fears. Self hypnosis and Neuro Linguistic Programming focus on addressing your harmful thinking style and then teaching you how to turn negative thoughts into positive action.
Positive Reinforcement

By regularly following a program of self hypnosis, your change in thinking styles gets positive reinforcement. You can learn how to recognize your sterling qualities which will improve your self esteem. Your change in thinking patterns is then linked to a change in behaviors. You will stop making unfounded accusations, learn to approach situations rationally, and learn to believe in yourself. When you need jealousy help problems have reached a stage where they are interfering in your life. Though self hypnosis, you can get jealousy help and begin to lead a new life free of the destructive emotion.
Using Self Hypnosis RecordingsFor Jealousy Help
Self Hypnosis Recordings can be used to tackle a whole range of different problems, jealousy included. Overcome Jealousy by Joseph Clough is particularly good for those seeking jealousy help; this isavailableIn both CD and MP3 formatsas well as with asixty day money-backguarantee.

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Richard MacKenzie asked:


Overcoming Envy is something that all sufferers would like to accomplish. Envy is one of the most destructive habits that someone can impose on themselves and their friends and family around them. If you suffer from Envy at the moment you will appreciate exactly what I mean and just how upsetting it can be to yourself and your relations with folks that you care for.

Each and every year in my therapy practice here in the UK I help hundreds of people and couples that have suffered at the hands of Envy for a long time. By the point that they come and see me the Envy has undoubtedly taken its toll on everything that they love and care about. It is amazing that something that begins in our imagination can soon ignite out of control and cause such upsetting damage.

Envy can be ignited by loads of things; but it nearly always sparks from some sort of insecurity. I have helped many people where their Envy ignited because of their partner having an affair. I have also helped people that put the whole thing down to being picked on while a teenager or a farther or mother leaving while they were young. Whatever the reason if Envy is not resolved then it will grow and cause major problems within present and future relations.

With people that need my help in getting over Envy I use Hypnotherapy and Emotional Freedom Technique. Both practices are incredibly successful in treating Envy. The Emotional Freedom Technique can work fast to improve all of the harmful emotions linked with Envy, while the Hypnotherapy can help them to rebuild their lives.

If utilised over only a small period of time, Hypnotherapy and Emotional Freedom Technique can help you to wholly get over your Envy and to move on in your life. Just picture being able to do all of the stuff that make you cheerful instead of having all of those unconstructive thoughts and emotions running around within your head. picture not having to fixate and worry over every little thing.

So if Envy is an issue for you and you need to overcome it and move on, then these treatments could be appropriate for you. When selecting a therapist, make sure that they are fully qualified and insured, either get in touch with a local Hypnotherapy and Emotional Freedom Technique to get more information and to find a therapist that is local to you.

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Mark Goodworthy asked:


Time has flown by so fast and many things have changed. Lives of people have become so fast-paced that somehow things like love and happiness have taken a backseat to career, business or money. Communications are centered not on how to foster relationships but on how to make the money tree grow.

Because of this, quite a lot of things have been taken for granted and people are slowly shying away from emotions that are the core of living. As a result, many feelings are harbored inside and these include regret, resentment and even the lurking green-eyed monster, jealousy.

This purely negative feeling that is known as jealousy is not only limited to your insane urge to grab at the hair of the woman your husband or boyfriend has been seeing behind your back. Jealousy could also be applied to the feelings of resentment that you have over the promotion of your colleague or your husband. It is also your inability to express your anger over why your husband treats your kid with more respect than he does you.

For those who are under the spell of this green-eyed monster, jealousy is a feeling that devastates them to the core and even results in them feeling great extent of anguish and pain. However, jealousy will not only affect the people who feel it, but also the people who surround them. Even if they try their hardest to hide their jealousy, it will always come out by the way they treat the people around them and how they will just allow it to ruin lives and relationships.

The basic approach to overcoming jealousy is knowing the reason behind it and understanding why it is happening. Usually, jealousy boils down to low self-esteem, insecurities and even huge love for a partner. While it is really great to love your partner so much, remember that anything that borders on the extreme is also bad and could just lead to hurt and devastation. Low self-esteem and insecurities are also two components of jealousy that should be gotten rid of.

If you are really intent on seeking help for your jealous tendencies, then maybe you could ask a hypnotherapist to treat you. Through hypnosis, your therapist will be able to go beyond the barriers that are keeping you from thinking positive thoughts. He will be able to delve into the negative blocks that are lodged in your subconscious and ease them out until you will be free of them. Once this happens, you are already able to overcome the lowness of your self-esteem as well as break away from your insecurities.

Then, all your jealous feelings will just fly out the window. Once the green-eyed monster is gone, you will finally be able to foster a relationship that is based on confidence and trust and be free from the anguish of always doubting.

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