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		<title>Jealousy: A Success Story!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2008 16:19:37 +0000</pubDate>
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Richard MacKenzie asked: The thing that I like the most about Hypnotherapy and Self Hypnosis is that it just makes it so much easier and much more possible to achieve your goals and your dreams. But today&#8217;s article isn&#8217;t about the effectiveness of Hypnosis and I am not going to go in to the detail [...]]]></description>
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<div><em><strong>Richard MacKenzie</strong> asked: </em><br/><br/><br/>The thing that I like the most about Hypnotherapy and Self Hypnosis is that it just makes it so much easier and much more possible to achieve your goals and your dreams. But today&#8217;s article isn&#8217;t about the effectiveness of Hypnosis and I am not going to go in to the detail of how it works, however I want to tell you a story about a client that came to see me sometime ago for a problem with Jealousy. For the sake of the article we will refer to her as, Sara. </p>
<p>The first thing that I remember from Sara was the call that she made into the office. She originally called to get some more information on coming to see me for private one to one sessions. I filled her in and told her about the sessions and the potential cost of treatment. </p>
<p>A few weeks later Sara came for her first appointment. When she walked into my treatment room, it was plain to see that Sara had big problems with her confidence and insecurities. During the first session she explained how everything was and just how badly her jealousy was affecting her and how it was tearing apart her relationship with her boyfriend. Because I didn&#8217;t want to leave Sara upset after telling me about all of the negative things going on, I decided to use Emotional Freedom Technique, which is a fast acting technique to help people just like Sara. </p>
<p>After a week Sara was back at my office for her second session. She reported that the EFT that I had taught her the week previous had worked wonders. She told me of how she went the whole two days after the session not feeling negative or jealous at all. </p>
<p>At this point I decided to teach Sara Self Hypnosis as I wanted her to use it side by side with the EFT that I had already taught her. While she was in Hypnosis I gave her loads of suggestions which were specific to the situation that she was in. We then set another appointment for two weeks later. </p>
<p>Well two weeks flew by for Sara and when she walked back into my office on that third session it was like seeing a new person. She reported to me that she had had a fantastic two weeks and both her and her partner felt that their relationship was going through the &#8216;Honeymoon&#8217; period again! </p>
<p>After that third session I never saw Sara again, however every so often I get a phone call or a little note in the post to thank me and to update me on her continued progress and success.<br/><br/><a href='http://kansieo.com/members'>Caffeinated Content &#8211; Members-Only Content for WordPress</a></div>
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		<title>When Jealousy Creeps In</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jun 2008 04:27:52 +0000</pubDate>
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Shanat Kuphur asked: Jealousy is a kind of feeling, which develops when a person believes that his/her valued relationship is threatened by some kind of insecurity. It mainly comes because of the insecurity of the jealous person. The causes of jealousy are more mental than physical. The feeling of jealousy is also considered to be [...]]]></description>
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<div><em><strong>Shanat Kuphur</strong> asked: </em><br/><br/><br/>Jealousy is a kind of feeling, which develops when a person believes that his/her valued relationship is threatened by some kind of insecurity. It mainly comes because of the insecurity of the jealous person. The causes of jealousy are more mental than physical. The feeling of jealousy is also considered to be a negative emotion and there are mainly two causes, which lead to jealousy. The first cause of jealousy can be attributed to the insecurity problem, which is mostly seen in such cases. This mainly happens when you are too sensitive by nature and often feel unsecured about the future.</p>
<p>Often it is seen that marital relations come to an end because of this particular feeling of jealousy. Communication is the root cause of jealousy in marital life. You should sort things out with your partner before things worsen to the core. You need to sit and discuss issues with your partner rather than assume things in worst possible way. However there&#8217;s times when you may not even know why jealousy is a part of your life or you&#8217;re actually emoting jealousy so often. In fact the situation could be such that you don&#8217;t even realize that you are so jealous.</p>
<p>Whether through self-realization or with the help of outside help you begin to pay attention to your jealous traits, it&#8217;s time you do something about it. Because in due course of time this will worsen your relationship with many loved ones around you. Don&#8217;t let your insecurities bring about your end.</p>
<p>Overcoming jealousy is no longer so difficult. It&#8217;s a pathological or mental condition that can go a long way in bringing about great disturbance in your physical well being. Help yourself today. If you think it&#8217;s a problem that will just resolve itself, no it wont. You need to be able to get out of the jealous trip and Hypnosis will be just right for you. Yes hypnosis, if you thought it was just a concept that you watched in movies and that the crystal maze was just for the heck of it, well it&#8217;s time you think again. Hypnosis is a contemporary treatment option but has been around from the early days. It was always used as a parallel source of treatment in varied societies.</p>
<p>Uncover the power of hypnosis in overcoming jealousy. Download your version and get started right away the benefits are many and you&#8217;ll learn along the way. The best thing being you don&#8217;t have to spend time going for sessions and trying to schedule your treatment into your busy life. You can begin your betterment right at home. This will help you regain confidence and better your relationship with those around you, especially siblings and loved ones.</p>
<p>Of course, deciding to face your jealousy head on can be a very daunting experience, however it is not as daunting as not doing anything about it and effectively choosing to spend every day with it for the rest of your life!<br/><br/><a href='http://mycaffeinatedcontent.com'>Create a video blog</a></div>
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		<title>Overcoming All Types Of Jealousy</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jun 2008 20:59:38 +0000</pubDate>
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Mark Goodworthy asked: Time has flown by so fast and many things have changed. Lives of people have become so fast-paced that somehow things like love and happiness have taken a backseat to career, business or money. Communications are centered not on how to foster relationships but on how to make the money tree grow.
Because [...]]]></description>
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<div><em><strong>Mark Goodworthy</strong> asked: </em><br/><br/><br/>Time has flown by so fast and many things have changed. Lives of people have become so fast-paced that somehow things like love and happiness have taken a backseat to career, business or money. Communications are centered not on how to foster relationships but on how to make the money tree grow.</p>
<p>Because of this, quite a lot of things have been taken for granted and people are slowly shying away from emotions that are the core of living. As a result, many feelings are harbored inside and these include regret, resentment and even the lurking green-eyed monster, jealousy.</p>
<p>This purely negative feeling that is known as jealousy is not only limited to your insane urge to grab at the hair of the woman your husband or boyfriend has been seeing behind your back. Jealousy could also be applied to the feelings of resentment that you have over the promotion of your colleague or your husband. It is also your inability to express your anger over why your husband treats your kid with more respect than he does you.</p>
<p>For those who are under the spell of this green-eyed monster, jealousy is a feeling that devastates them to the core and even results in them feeling great extent of anguish and pain. However, jealousy will not only affect the people who feel it, but also the people who surround them. Even if they try their hardest to hide their jealousy, it will always come out by the way they treat the people around them and how they will just allow it to ruin lives and relationships.</p>
<p>The basic approach to overcoming jealousy is knowing the reason behind it and understanding why it is happening. Usually, jealousy boils down to low self-esteem, insecurities and even huge love for a partner. While it is really great to love your partner so much, remember that anything that borders on the extreme is also bad and could just lead to hurt and devastation. Low self-esteem and insecurities are also two components of jealousy that should be gotten rid of.</p>
<p>If you are really intent on seeking help for your jealous tendencies, then maybe you could ask a hypnotherapist to treat you. Through hypnosis, your therapist will be able to go beyond the barriers that are keeping you from thinking positive thoughts. He will be able to delve into the negative blocks that are lodged in your subconscious and ease them out until you will be free of them. Once this happens, you are already able to overcome the lowness of your self-esteem as well as break away from your insecurities.</p>
<p>Then, all your jealous feelings will just fly out the window. Once the green-eyed monster is gone, you will finally be able to foster a relationship that is based on confidence and trust and be free from the anguish of always doubting.<br/><br/><a href='http://kansieo.com/members'>Caffeinated Content &#8211; Members-Only Content for WordPress</a></div>
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