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4 Responses to “What causes insecurity and jealousy when you know it’s wrong and how do you overcome it?”
I don’t think you are the only girl that does this, my ex boyfriend explained to me that his last girlfriend got mad at him every time a girl passed when the were just sitting. I think you should rationalize your jealousy, know he is with you why because he loves you, he needs his space and you need yours. My exboyfriend always called every other girl sweetie that’s not why he’s a ex,we talked about him calling everyone sweetie and he explained that he loves me.
Start by living your own life. Jealousy is a form of control, which you do not have over any other person and you end up feeling angry and depressed about, so the only person who is hurting you is yourself. Insecurity comes from not being sure about yourself or the situation, start by taking control, of yourself I mean!
Wow, are you sure that you and I aren’t the same person?? I am EXACTLY the same way. So much to the point that even one of the only girlfriends I do have, I get jealous of, like she is more the kind of person that he wants to be with. Has anything helped you? I wish i could give you advice, but I’m still needing it too. I am going to push him away and ruin what we have if I don’t start trying to relieve myself of this problem.
Why are you asking a guy this question that hasn’t had a girlfriend in over 2.5 years?
I don’t think you are the only girl that does this, my ex boyfriend explained to me that his last girlfriend got mad at him every time a girl passed when the were just sitting. I think you should rationalize your jealousy, know he is with you why because he loves you, he needs his space and you need yours. My exboyfriend always called every other girl sweetie that’s not why he’s a ex,we talked about him calling everyone sweetie and he explained that he loves me.
Start by living your own life. Jealousy is a form of control, which you do not have over any other person and you end up feeling angry and depressed about, so the only person who is hurting you is yourself. Insecurity comes from not being sure about yourself or the situation, start by taking control, of yourself I mean!
Wow, are you sure that you and I aren’t the same person?? I am EXACTLY the same way. So much to the point that even one of the only girlfriends I do have, I get jealous of, like she is more the kind of person that he wants to be with. Has anything helped you? I wish i could give you advice, but I’m still needing it too. I am going to push him away and ruin what we have if I don’t start trying to relieve myself of this problem.