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25 Responses to “Will I Get Jealous After Swinging Or A Threesome?”
Agreed. And the thought that I as a women should just “get over my insecurities” and go with it if he wants another chick pisses me off. If I can’t touch and flirt with other guys, then my guy can’t touch or flirt with other girls.
if u love your girl or dude this shouldn’t even enter ur mind enough said why would u allow another man to touch your girl wow how retarded can ppl get
My name is melissa, and i was raped before i died. I use to enjoy pain and now i inflict it upon people. I was tortured and raped untill i could no longer breathe. Those meanies now suffer and die, and those who do not repost this to 5 videos will die too. i hate this 2 but i believe
At the strike of 12AM, those who did not repost this will die a horrible death after seeing a bloody face covered with long black hair. Those who repost? this will receieve a kiss from their crush
hey .. well, im in the middle of a nightmare ( or i feel so ), my boyfriend wants SOO bad to have sex with another girl at the same time as me – and im maybe the most jealous person in the world, or i feel so sometimes because i relly dont want him to have sex with someone else even when im with, i know i CANT live with it after it… but he becomes somehow annoyed and says that we WILL do it later, and i wont leave him, but i feel im not enough for him
r there somebody who can help me pls?
Because women release oxytocin which cause them to bond to the male. This can cause ladies to get emotionally attached, even when it isn’t their man. Then he has sex with someone else and the woman gets jealous. I think the best way is to not look at it as love because sex does not equal love. If you are getting real jealous each time, then maybe you need to be in a closed relationship. I feel most guys are fine with swinging and it does not bring any emotion, but women tend to be different.
Having sex with new partners can be a trigger for different emotions. If it is just routine sex that is one thing. But if some of the partners go into genuine HEAT! And the fore play and games go on for long periods of time. That can be really thrilling and at the same time also STRESSFUL. So cpls should make sure that they are READY !
Dude that’s weird… so awkward…
sorry to hear…
but seriously… threesomes don’t work in a relationship…
When I’m single, sure, in a relationship no fuckin way…
It depends…
As long as you grow and get taller, well… yow lil buddy can grow too…
it depends, some people stop at 17, some at 24…
so yeah… let’s hope for the best…
I lost my girlfriend too a threesome, she went with the other girl. How bads that, not only did we end, she left me for a women! I wanted to get with the other women, so I think she did it to piss me off.
This sounds odd, but I’m always prepared to lose my partner at any given moment. In a way, this helps me enjoy them IN the moment, and not obsess over having them for x amount of time, or losing them to x amount of people.
You have to understand that they can have fun with many people, but they just choose you to be happy with.
This means I trust her that much more; because if she were to ever do something to me that jealousy would have dreaded, then it’s “had a lot of fun, now I gotta run.”
I think it’s important to realize that some people are just not cut out for swinging. They are who they are and no amount of talking about it will take away their inherent jealousy. But if you think may be cut out for it, I would recommend lots of talking between partners so both people clearly understand what they need from the experience and what their partners boundaries are. This may help head off problems.
I think jealousy is born of not really feeling loved by your partner. In my relationship, I DO feel very loved by my partner. We have an honest, open relationship. We talk about everything together. When we tried our first threesome with another woman, I did not feel jealous at all of my boyfriend making love to her, because I recognized that it wasn’t a threat to me at all, becaues he loves me. It turned me on to see his passion and arousal for the other woman… it was just sex with her.
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what the shit.. my ex girlfriend giving out her sexy homemade video.. flirtycams, org …
Wow, she is hot. Maybe you can find her on SEXYGINA[.]TK many porn videos there
haha my bf would die of rage if i ever even mentioned swinging..he gets jolous when i dance with my guy friends!!no way
Ask someone who’s into polyamory. There’s many different possible reasons why people might do stuff like this.
If he makes you feel “not enough”.. it’s not worth it imo, sweetie
Agreed. And the thought that I as a women should just “get over my insecurities” and go with it if he wants another chick pisses me off. If I can’t touch and flirt with other guys, then my guy can’t touch or flirt with other girls.
if u love your girl or dude this shouldn’t even enter ur mind enough said why would u allow another man to touch your girl wow how retarded can ppl get
My name is melissa, and i was raped before i died. I use to enjoy pain and now i inflict it upon people. I was tortured and raped untill i could no longer breathe. Those meanies now suffer and die, and those who do not repost this to 5 videos will die too. i hate this 2 but i believe
At the strike of 12AM, those who did not repost this will die a horrible death after seeing a bloody face covered with long black hair. Those who repost? this will receieve a kiss from their crush
I think the scientific term is “lesbian”. Which means that your relationship was doomed from the start, no matter what you did.
Consider yourself lucky that you found this out now instead after a decade of misery.
hey .. well, im in the middle of a nightmare ( or i feel so ), my boyfriend wants SOO bad to have sex with another girl at the same time as me – and im maybe the most jealous person in the world, or i feel so sometimes because i relly dont want him to have sex with someone else even when im with, i know i CANT live with it after it… but he becomes somehow annoyed and says that we WILL do it later, and i wont leave him, but i feel im not enough for him
r there somebody who can help me pls?
Because women release oxytocin which cause them to bond to the male. This can cause ladies to get emotionally attached, even when it isn’t their man. Then he has sex with someone else and the woman gets jealous. I think the best way is to not look at it as love because sex does not equal love. If you are getting real jealous each time, then maybe you need to be in a closed relationship. I feel most guys are fine with swinging and it does not bring any emotion, but women tend to be different.
Having sex with new partners can be a trigger for different emotions. If it is just routine sex that is one thing. But if some of the partners go into genuine HEAT! And the fore play and games go on for long periods of time. That can be really thrilling and at the same time also STRESSFUL. So cpls should make sure that they are READY !
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well i’m 5 1/2 inches and was born last week! Is this a normal rate to grow? Plz answer!
Dude that’s weird… so awkward…
sorry to hear…
but seriously… threesomes don’t work in a relationship…
When I’m single, sure, in a relationship no fuckin way…
It depends…
As long as you grow and get taller, well… yow lil buddy can grow too…
it depends, some people stop at 17, some at 24…
so yeah… let’s hope for the best…
it stops growing when you’re about 17
I lost my girlfriend too a threesome, she went with the other girl. How bads that, not only did we end, she left me for a women! I wanted to get with the other women, so I think she did it to piss me off.
Thats small mate. Are you worried about that? I don’t think it’ll grow anymore, I think you’re just an unlucky one.
my names aaron in wanted to know when does your penis stop growing couse my penis is 6in in im 16.
Oh yeah, we don’t swing, though I wouldn’t say never.
This sounds odd, but I’m always prepared to lose my partner at any given moment. In a way, this helps me enjoy them IN the moment, and not obsess over having them for x amount of time, or losing them to x amount of people.
You have to understand that they can have fun with many people, but they just choose you to be happy with.
This means I trust her that much more; because if she were to ever do something to me that jealousy would have dreaded, then it’s “had a lot of fun, now I gotta run.”
I’m one of those not cut out for it >.>
I think it’s important to realize that some people are just not cut out for swinging. They are who they are and no amount of talking about it will take away their inherent jealousy. But if you think may be cut out for it, I would recommend lots of talking between partners so both people clearly understand what they need from the experience and what their partners boundaries are. This may help head off problems.
I think jealousy is born of not really feeling loved by your partner. In my relationship, I DO feel very loved by my partner. We have an honest, open relationship. We talk about everything together. When we tried our first threesome with another woman, I did not feel jealous at all of my boyfriend making love to her, because I recognized that it wasn’t a threat to me at all, becaues he loves me. It turned me on to see his passion and arousal for the other woman… it was just sex with her.